I just wanted to add more details about my question...my boyfriend slept with prostitutes in the past over 10 years ago...he pays equal rent...i just graduated from my masters and am looking for a job...he used to be so affectionate, would leave me gifts at home, call me everyday, plan fun things to do, etc. As soon as he got in, he stopped all this. I believe him that he did not cheat. Some of his colleagues were there and they were busy 24/7...anyway...he usually ignores me...coming home at 10 afterwork...he said he was giving me space...i said we need to go on dates...he said its always about me...i feel like he hates me...he said that we need to "want" each other...he says his feelings have changed and that time will tell what will happen...i feel awful...i told him to leave that it would be better that way...he said okay...but then just didnt really say anything...he said we can be friends after ive said that almost everyday for the past month bc i wanted to get a reaction...
2007-03-19 16:51:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's fallen out of the relationship. I wouldn't take it personally, because it's not you as a person. It's usually a compatability problem wherein one person realizes that the relationship (not necessarily the person) isn't working for them. Why you would say something just to get a "reaction" doesn't seem fruitful. You should speak your mind as the truth, not only to hope and see if you get the reaction you play out in your head. I've seen this happen before. Regardless, I'd move on, and try another relationship.
2007-03-19 16:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by J C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he wouldn't be sleeping with prostitutes, i couldn't care where he was or you for that matter and how long you's were apart, that doesn't give him the right to do that. To be honest it sounds like your relationship was over a long time ago ( maybe when he started screwing hookers ) and i think you should move on and find someone who is worthy of your love because this guy certainly doesn't deserve you. Let him go and have all the prostitutes he wants and let him sleep with them behind someone elses back, not yours.
2007-03-19 17:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, if you feel that he is not the kind of guy who will give you a lasting happiness and marriage, then move on, you will meet a better man instead. Often, we might be charm by the physical attributes of the men or women we fascinated with, and without realising they aren't what we really seek for as a soulmate. Cheers.
2007-03-19 17:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is stressful for you, yet your mom is barely conserving you and would not prefer something to ensue to you. Age difference would not count she would be in a position to continuously assume a guy is to old for you in view which you're her daughter. And definite your mom would have met your father the comparable time you met yours and your mom probable made some blunders that she purely would not prefer repeated to you. purely hear to her by way of fact in the tip if something does ensue to you, you will sense undesirable for no longer listening and you'd be apologetic related to the result.
2016-12-15 04:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him it seems like you lost him. I hope he will change for the better and see what a good thing he has. Some guys don't realize what they have until its gone.
2007-03-19 16:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. i want to break up now...and it's not even my relationship. Sweetheart...let him go. life is too short to be worrying about what's his face. do me a favor and save this question...then come back and read it in a year when you are soooooo over this loser. you've got it going on (masters, about to get a job). don't worry yourself with bullcrap, it really disrespects everything you have worked hard for up to this point. time to move on babe.
2007-03-19 16:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are worth more than he thinks of you. Get with a person that can give what you know you should have.
2007-03-19 16:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with prostitude is bad enough to disrespect you.
you may worth whole alot more than the way you have been treated.
dump and move on.
2007-03-19 16:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by destinysprenger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what ya got until its gone. Make him realize what he had. Leave him and have no intention of coming back unless he convinces you that he misses and loves you.
2007-03-19 16:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
how many prostitutes did he sleep with?
2007-03-19 17:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋