A very complicated relationship?

Question

here's the deal- ive known my ex since '04. we broke up in '05, but stayed talking. He relocated to go 2 school in IL, & i recently moved down to GA. No less than a month after i moved, he came to see me for 2 wks. & we ended up picking up right where we left off. except that this time we have decided not to coin the term "relationship" b/c of the distance & we both cannot afford to lose focus @ the moment. we are both late in starting college. recently he took his entire 1 week spring break to come see me once more. We have good sex, deep conversation.. we talk practically evry day, send e/o gifts, have silly nicknames & essentially what we have is no diff. frm any other relationship except that we do not use the term. if he messes w/ another b*tch i could honestly care less, b/c at the end of the day he is prooving 2 me that hes comin to see me & using his last dime on me. we are working towards possibilities of love, but realistic w/ it. i would like 2 meet ppl in similar situations

i would like to emphasize the fact that we are not simply having sex, being that we have known each other for about 3 yrs. we get along very well and love each other, but we cannot afford to go @ it full-force because of the distance and the fact that we are two down-to-earth people that realize, ultimate love takes time to develop. i hope that shines a little light onto it, b/c lets be REAL, in a real long-lasting relationship the "love thing" is not the ONLY thing that holds 2 people together. compromise, endurance, respect, patience etc. are essential as well. come on i know that im not the ONLY female with this type of perception on love.

Answer 1

Sounds like chemistry and friendship, but not love.

You'd know if it was love by now. Does it feel like you couldn't live without him?

If that thought makes you achy and incredibly sad, it's love.

If not, you're just killing time with a convenient guy until love comes along.

Answer 2

Okay well, first of all. you need to put lotion on once in a while, girls don't like dry skin. secoundly, maybe penut butter isn't your ff's favorite thing on toast, so just put it on your legs instead. try having him lick it off a little. it's fun ;) also, don't be so se.x crazy! maybe once or twice a day but seriously, 15 times in a day?! whoa your crazy. lol. hope this helped!