My mom said when she was younger, there were boys she just didn't want to talk to anymore for no reason, just like the girl I fell in love with and can't seem to let go. She also said this boy told her how he felt about her and she still didn't want to talk to him. So I'm not going to tell this girl how I feel about her (see additional details for what I was going to say to her) because I it won't work. It's just that today I saw her talking, touching and playing with other boys and even though it don't mean nothing except she likes them in a slightly-more-than-friends but-still-not-boyfriend kind of way, it still gets to me because I'm not one of the boys she's flirting with. I can't get her off my mind. I saw her sneak at least 2 looks in my direction though. I keep asking myself "She never liked you like you liked her, she told you she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, why don't you just forget her? The answer keeps coming back because I miss her and I love her.
2007-03-19 16:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two sides of me are telling me to try because I love her and the other is saying there must be a good reason for my benefit she's gone and let her stay gone. What happened between us was I've liked her since I was 15 and she was 15, when we met, and 4 months into the year 2006 (we were both 16) we talked but after that I did something by mistake, she got mad at me, and I gave her space. When I tried to talk to her she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I've tried to move on but I feel like I need her friendship back. Could I have given her too much space (a month and a half), to where she'd think I must not care since I didn't try my hardest to get her back, and that's why she said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. By the way, when I talked to her online after that about it, she always responded when I said something. Sometimes it seems like she may want to talk to me, and maybe if I just start a casual conversation (instead of saying how I feel) it could work out.
2007-03-19 16:43:33 · update #1
I have the strangest feeling (or delusion, or soon to be dashed hope) that she may want to talk to me if I just be myself to her and act confident and unafraid she won't talk to me, you know, almost like I don't care.
2007-03-19 16:45:18 · update #2
Tell her you silly butt.
She might want you to make the first move.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-19 16:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom told you her reasons why she didn't talk to guys anymore and you are going by what she said and that is what holding you back from telling your girl you're true feelings for her because you are afraid that she might not care about them and reject you. And if she was flirting in front of you and taking glances at you, she probably was seeing what reaction you were going to do, as you are doing it right now. You are a little jealous because she is not paying you any attention and she knows it by flirting. I will tell you to save your true and important feelings for someone who truly deserves them and don't waste your time with someone who doesn't deserve it. If you put yourself out there and get crushed, it would leave a scar. If she wants you, she would be with you. I hope that I was so help to you.
2007-03-19 23:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by rainwater153 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, I once loved someone and he didn't love me...he ended up hurting my feeling real bad. If someone don't care for you there is nothing you can do. They will just use you I know. You may hurt for awhile but make up your mind that she wasn't meant for you. If you were to end up with her all you would do is suffer. Because she will never be able to care for you the way you do for her. At the end you will end up resenting and hating her for not loving you.
2007-03-19 23:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we want to do thing that we THINK will make us happy. but seriously, that's not what love is all about. you're happy whenever you see her and all you want is to be with her... but if you really, REALLY love her, you would want her happiness before your own even though it will hurt you like hell. if you can see that she's happy with her own life without you and you still want to be in her life because that will make you happy, then you do not love her.
i can see that you still want her despite what she did to you and what other people say about her. in a way that's good because it means that you want her despite her faults. still, it doesn't mean that because nobody's perfect that you don't have a choice. you don't have to settle for less. you can meet a girl that is RIGHT for YOU. not necessarily perfect, but perfect for you.
if you really love her, you can love her from afar. but don't forget that you have a life to live. your life can't revolve around her.
2007-03-19 23:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by cara_hermosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate..u r right about one thing..u should be yourself and be more confident.Be friends with her..know what she wants.If she doesnt want to talk to u anymore..perhaps u should just let her go.U love her..understandable..but love should be reciprocal in order to be complete.Dont waste your tears on someone who doesnt care for u..no matter how special she may be.Life doesn't stop at her.Get to know her better..let her know what kind of person u r..if it works..great!if it doesnt...just move on.U have to b strong.good luck:)
2007-03-19 23:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much rejection do you require, stop stressing its natural to want what you can't have don't give her anymore joy shes a player.
2007-03-19 23:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋