ok i like my girlfriend a lot.. but she always makes me mad! and i always end up haven to forgive her.. i just dont get her at times because sometimes she acts like she doesn't want a thing to do with me but then other times shes all super close n crap.
heres examples...
she always expects me to do everything.. like i have to always the the ingintiative to hold her hand.. to hug her.. to kiss her... or tell her i love her, which she only says it back sometimes..
then sometimes when she makes me mad and i kinda dont stare at her when im with her or hold her hand tight and let my fingers slip away, she will rub my arm and get all close and use her other hand to make me hold hers tighter...
when i hang with my friends more her friend always says she gets sad but i just dont get it cause she does it to me sometimes! i went to knotts berry with her sat in big groups and she ran off with her friends and told her friend anthony that he should go with them but she then got mad
2007-03-19 16:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt go with her... ugh what is her deal?
2007-03-19 16:30:09 · update #1
maybe you should sit down with her and have a talk... perhaps she doesn't even realize that she's doing these things that make you angry. if a guy that i liked let me know what he was feeling, i would pay attention to his requests if i wanted him to continue liking me. just talk to her about it... if she still does things to make you annoyed, you are probably better off just being friends so you don't have to make any kind of "relationship" commitments to her. hope that helps! :-)
2007-03-19 16:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like she is serious about the relationship if she's having her friend anthony tag along when you're not. Sounds to me that I'm sure she cares for you and probably just the act of "having" a relationship. You know.....more like she needs constant validation of how you feel for her. The constant touching (when she wants it) is just her way of being reassured she is still desirable.
That's wierd about having to apologize though. Maybe you two should sit down and talk about mixed signals to clear the air.
2007-03-19 23:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by gdesigner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is messing with your head. She is also using you. If she cared at all about you she would take your feelings into consideration. Also maybe you seem possessive to her. Calmly but seriously explain to her that relationships are 50/50. It takes both sides to make it work. And that means you both have to do it at the same time.
2007-03-19 23:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is insecure and totally cares about you, but doesn't not how to interact properly in a relationship. A really good indicator of this is her previous relationships. Has she had really bad relationships? If so it could have alot to do with the way she treats you.
2007-03-19 23:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by mogmon35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert, but it sounds like your girl is a control freak. She only wants you, when it's convenient for her. She will probably be one of those girls who, if you split up will be interested again,only if you're interested in someone else,or if someone else is into you. I've seen it lots of times. It would be in your best interest to lose her.. you'll be alot happier with somone who is actually into you. Lots of luck!!!
2007-03-19 23:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by carla c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to sit down with her to talk, and tell her how you feel, maybe she just doesn't know how you feel about the situation, and if that doesn't work then maybe she's not the one for you and you have better things ahead of you, and move on with your life.thats the best i can put it.
2007-03-19 23:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by [kiki]licious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋