I'm 14, and my parents have never brought up the subject of dating. I like this guy, and he also likes me, he goes to the same church as my uncle(who is very close to the family), and he's only a few months older than me. I have only talked to my aunt about dating, and she told me it would be alright if I start dating at 14, since her daughters were allowed to date at 13. I just have no idea to ask my parents if I'm old enough to date, but if they don't consent to it, I wouldn't make a big fuss, as they probably have their reasons. The question is how to ask them about dating, not how to ask them to let me date.
2007-03-19 16:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by blackcandles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try speaking to them as a "mature young lady." it flatters them for some reason. Let them know the guys good traits. Also, when you first start dating if ur parents suggest double dates, go with it. it makes things less awkward between u & and your parents and you & your boyfriend
2007-03-19 16:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with them and talk to them with the most mature attitude. Let them know that you want to go out with a boy that would be good friend material. Tell them you will be responsible and that he has a good background because you met him church.
2007-03-19 23:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by K T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start bringing up the date conversation, like, awww, that guy is cute, wouldnt mind DATING him, lol, ok maybe not that obvious, just b like, mom there is this guy at church that we both like eachother so do u think we can go out some time? since you already know the family
2007-03-19 23:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them!
my mom loves it when i come home and talk about the guy i like.
it builds a better and more trusting relationship with your mom.
2007-03-19 23:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by caligirlforever451 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared you need to go for what you want if they say no its probably because they think he will just want to have sexual intercorce.
2007-03-19 23:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by shtopramen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring it up in a conversation
or
dont ask
2007-03-19 23:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by hotsuga92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you're already active and you need the pill...
That will put them into jump start.
Get pregnant, it might help
2007-03-19 23:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by askyomomma o 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋