HELP with girls please? IM FAT?

Question

ok im 240lbs and have traind to be a powerlifter all my life but i am still more fat than rip how do i get a girl to like me

Answer 1

treat her like a queen....and be nice to her...she will like you for your personality not your looks

Answer 2

Get off your fat ar*se and try harder. Put down the bag o' chips you are eating while you read this and stop eating them, FOR GOOD. Go to your fridge right now and take out all the fattening, cholesterol filled foods that you have been gorging yourself on and throw them in the bin. Knowing you, you will be tempted to pull it out and eat it again (you're fat, of course you would) so tip rat bait on top. Then, if you want to eat it you will either vomit it all back up again or die. I'm betting you wont die though because you are so fat that a whole box of rat bait wont be enough to take you down. Then, tip all your coke, pepsi and other cola related products down the sink. DON'T YOU DARE GO TO THE STORM DRAIN OUTSIDE TO DRINK WHAT RUNS PAST. Now, once all this food's gone your first instinct will be to go and buy more so burn your wallet NOW. Now, get a bottle of water and your mobile phone and chain yourself to your hot water service. Stay there for several days until you have lost your revolting flab. Excercise and do push-up's/sit-up's all the while. This is the only way and you know it, YOU FAT PRICK. I gurantee you that this will be the last time anyone EVER says that to you. NOW GO OUT THERE AND BE THE BEST FAT PRICK YOU CAN BE, YOU FAT FU*CKING BASTARD.

Answer 3

Long walks and an iPod. I lost 76 lbs of body mass doing that, and I ate moderately.

To attract a girl? Talk with another girl that is going through the same phase as you. There are many out there who pretend to be skinny on the net, but they are not. Believe me. Been there done that.

I went out with an overweight guy with a cute face w/beautiful blue eyes, and he is now the love of my life, we both lost weight together. I wouldn't care if he weighed 500 lbs. Love knows no size.

Please lose the weight for your health dear, because in the process if you do it to yourself, people will notice your enthusiasm and that attracts people.

Answer 4

Brendan, i don't know how tall you are, how old you are, nothing about you other than you think you are fat! if you are 5 feet tall then you are probably a little heavy but if you are a tall fella your weight is probably pretty good.
i like big men myself............and i know lots of women/girls who do.
we tell girls this all the time but now we are having to tell you fellas the same thing:
looks aren't everything, it is what you are on the inside that counts.
as long as you are a friendly, considerate, kind-hearted, compassionate man that special girl will see thru your physique and see you for who you are............a good man.
in the meantime as long as you are eating right, living right and taking care of yourself don't worry about your weight.
i hope this somehow makes you feel better about yourself. just hang in there, and make sure you aren't overlooking the right girl by overlooking one who isn't one of the 'beautiful' people.

Answer 5

OK..since i am a girl you take it from my point of view. First off... are you on a good diet? If you are... you have nothing to worry about. A girl will come around and like you for who you are. Don't worry. Now if it is a really serious fat problem... maybe you should see a doctor. If it isn't don't do anything drastic, like go on a crash diet. OK?

Answer 6

They say theres a girl for everyone. U can ever make someone want u, all u can do is be a friend. Don't let sex be the only thing u look at, look to be her best friend. It's like cats, I have an employee, he's always chasing my cat around, he wants to pet it, I told him to let it go. Now the cat comes to him! Women are the same, don't push be a friend, open u'r heart to them, it does ot matter if u'r a thousand pounds, be calm, cool & collected & always respect them.

Answer 7

Personality, fun to be with and talk too. I hope your size is healthy for you. Girls will be girls by wondering what they friends think about you. Be patient and keep doing what you like to do. If you think you are to fat shape up. Good luck. Having gf when you are young maybe to emotional. Just have fun tried and do group things. You need more self-esteem. Be confident in your own skin. Good lucky.

Answer 8

i know a lot of people say to be yourself and it will happen but the girls look first and ask questions latter go on a date sight like cupid.com and meet someone on there first that likes what you like and go from there. be yourself but at least give yourself a fighting chance. i use to weight lift in school and i had no problem dating but i'm a girl and girls can get a date faster than guys. so like i said stay the same just be smart about it.

Answer 9

Show confidence. I've dated plenty of husky guys that were confident, funny, and knew how to treat a girl right. It's all in the personality. Lots of girls like guys your size but if your self-conscious, it shows and it's a turn off. Start accepting yourself first and the rest will follow.

Answer 10

I personally find that men who are a bit overweight are sweet hearts they are more into pleasing the other then they are into their hair and body. with this said being your self is importaint dont be afraid to tell others how you feel because some one will share your point of view... dont give up

Answer 11

Well the fatness is a problem, if you really want a gf then you should try to lose weight, come on, you should be able to do it