My girlfriend broke up with me all of a sudden. I dont know why. Why do you think she did it?

Question

honeslty, these are the reasons why. but i dotn know which is 'The' reason why she broke up with me. these are based on what she has been telling me.

1. Im bad in bed.(thats debatable. im good)
2. Im too possessive to the point of choking her.(I Just care a lot)
3. Im boastful. (i just wanna impress)
4. age gap( seven years. not that bad.)
5 she's no longer jealous when im with other girls. so she thinks its a sign shes falling out of love.
6. its just her mood. she loves. she dont. she loves. she dont.

Answer 1

STOP MAKING EXCUSES! You're going to drive yourself insane trying to figure it out.

She broke up with you. That's it. Maybe it was one of those things, but maybe it wasn't.

Don't put yourself through this agony. I know you want to have the closure of knowing what went wrong, but now it just not the right time.

Answer 2

Well, the first thing that stands out is that you are too possessive...choking her??? I would have left a long time ago. You don't do things like that to someone you love or anyone for that matter. You truly sound like you are not to bright when it comes to women. Let me let you in on a little secret. Women like for men to get a little jealous but not to the point where you are hurting them.
If a problem had been brought up about the bedroom...I am sorry, but you are not hitting it right, period. If you were then it wouldn't even be an issue. It sounds like she is dropping a lot of reasons to be away from you and you should just face that and go get some counseling on how to treat other people.

Answer 3

1. Im bad in bed.

-OUCH.. do you really wanna be with someone that says that to you?

2. Im too possessive to the point of choking her.

-have you choked her? And possessive yikes.. its ok.. to a certain extent. don't over do it or she will think you are just crazy

3. Im boastful. (i just wanna impress)

-thats not toooo bad.. but then again who are you trying to impress?

4. age gap( seven years. not that bad.)

-not bad

5 she's no longer jealous when im with other girls. so she thinks its a sign shes falling out of love.

-could be.. but then again my bf is never jealous.. or I should say "rarely" he's just very confident ha

6. its just her mood. she loves. she dont. she loves. she dont.

-tell her to **** off.. either she wants you or she doesn't..


In my opinion she sounds like an immature ***** I suggest you just move on.. I know its easier said than done.. sorry

Answer 4

OMG... I know it's not right, but I was laughing out loud at that one. I seriously hope you don't choke her. But besides that she's probably just over that initial 'infatuation'. You know, when you first start going out with someone and you're mesmorized by them? She's probably getting bored so you'll just have to try harder. Pay more attention to her, buy some 'male-enhancement' pills, some roses, and don't choke her. If that doesn't fix it, get her some Prosac. Who knows...maybe it's just her...

Answer 5

Sit down long and hard too see if this is someone that you want at all> Bad in bed...noone should ever tell you unless you have real problem. posessive and boastful get over. Age gap healthly and if she is not jealous screw her and do you want someone that tempermental?

Answer 6

I would really brake up w/ a guy if there was a 7 year age gap. That is not good. Take someone your own age that thinks better of u. GL!

Answer 7

Hi
I hope that you should feel lucky that you are no longer with this person. If someone hurts your feeling and insults you you are better off. just tell yourself, and keep going other side of the roads.. there are plenty of fish in the sea. and tell yourself you are better then this. and I know, people usually try to put other person down in order to increase their self esteem. I would cool off and not to get in touch with this person and do not go back.. if you do you will lose and she will win. god luck

Answer 8

you are not the underdog,be clear about this,don't sulk.she doesn't seem to know the seriousness of a relation,i feel.she should understand she's not going to find an everlasting fascinating guy.can anyone of your friends put that in her brain or can you do that or at least try once?i think that will get her back to you, i hope.don't worry be happy.

Answer 9

You've got a funny love life, loverboy. Well I'll tell you what: Number THREE is the best thing I can describe about you. The first sentence, if I could giggle.

Answer 10

I think you have pic the name underdog for a good reason...you try to hard...even if it should be , you push the issue and try and make it right...that kind of mentality can only last so long and your time has run out..