meaning that she broke up with me before a holiday and that she found a guy 3 days later after coming out of an almost 4 year relationship.
2007-03-19 16:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really hard to say because I don't know your situation, but you really need to do some searching of your heart and why you would or would not want to get back with her. It is possible she just screwed up and is realizing that now, or it is possible she will make a habit of it, knowing that you will take her back. I think you need to sit down with her and talk about why you should or shouldn't get back together and if she has truely had a change of heart or not.
2007-03-19 16:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by squirrelz_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. if you love her then do it. BUT if you do you must start with a clean slate. you'll need to set some ground rules for yourself AND her, so that neither of you become the other's doormat..
* DO NOT expect her to be your whole world (and vice versa)
* DO have time away from each other with friends
* make an agreement to talk about anything that is bothering either of you openly.
* DO NOT use past mistakes as weapons of attack in an argument.
* DO NOT play on guilt
failure to implement the above will only lead to unhappiness & inevitably relationship breakdown again.
2007-03-19 16:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by inkrouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other Guy is just a "Rebound", don't worry. But if she broke up with you and went to some other guy already...I would leave her alone for good. That is just careless and disrespectful
2007-03-19 16:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about it? Do you want her back? Do you think she'll do it again? Let her know how devestated you were about what she did and you'll never know if you can really trust her again, but if you love her and she loves you, I'm sure you'll find a way to make it work.
2007-03-19 16:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tanya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why? She treated you as #2 , so why treat yourself the same way...she has proven she can be that way with you..the chances of her doing it again are much greater than before...don't put yourself through that again...good luck.
2007-03-19 16:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you take dirty trash out of a trash can? Probably not, so why would you want to take her back.
2007-03-19 16:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by M M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Go Back!
2007-03-19 16:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by lizziebabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that its a rebound too... Is she worth taking back? Maybe you should move on too...
2007-03-19 16:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-03-19 16:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋