what should i say to her...
2007-03-19 16:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh my goodness. my heart goes out to your family. this is going to be a very difficult time for you all.
your sister is going to need your unending support as she embarks on this pregnancy ( I am assuming she will carry the baby).
Another important thing for your sister to do is get tested for STD's and get pre-natal care. You might be able to help her by doing some of the research and finding a clinic near you so that she can get some free health advice.
http://www.teenwire.com/
that is the Planned Parenthood teen website...you might want to check it out.
But, really just be there for her and encourage your family to do the same.
My prayers are with you.
2007-03-19 17:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by AdventuresWithBaby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has alot of growing up to do. Tell her life will be harder but she'll mature faster and experience an unconditional amount of love for someone. Tell her she better get on that guys a*s about fathering rights and what not. She's gonna need money so hopefuly your parent(s) will be able to help, or at least someone. She needs to get ahold of all the government help she can get. Don't let her fall to selling her body for money, that's horrible, and there are other ways of finding out how to make money.
2007-03-20 03:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! ....wow!...
...I guess you need to be there for her... advice her... let her know it wasn't right to do that but since it's done... to learn from the mistake... that's pretty hard... to be a Mommy at 12 ..I'm 21 and I haven't dared to have a kid...
...but yeah... just be there for her... if your parents don't know yet.. when you let them know.. talk to them calmly ...let them know she's only a child... and there's alot of pressures when a child is about to go to their teen years... and that there's nothing else to do but be there for her.. advice her and let her know she's not alone on this...
2007-03-20 00:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats terrible.I assume the parents know about it.She needs to realize she isnt in any position to raise the kid, she is going to be going thru a hard time.Just tell her you love her, but that you hope she learns from her mistakes.I also hope your parents get their heads out of their hind ends and realize they dont need to be allowing you girls in situations where this kind of thing can happen.Tell them that for me please.
2007-03-19 23:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg she is really young iv got a sister that is 12 it wolud really be upsetting im sorry to hear that, does your parents know? you just need to sit her down and have a really calm talk to her dont shout then she wont lisen to you. good luck
2007-03-20 17:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her your love and support, and put her in contact with the local pregnancy center as they should have many helpful resources.
2007-03-20 08:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by busybusymomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Pregnancy is a scarey thing, I couldn't even imagine how a young girl would handle it. She's gonna need your support.
2007-03-20 00:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoaaaaa...she is wayyyy too young, but be there for her, and support her. All she needs right now is love.
2007-03-20 22:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Fl@$hy Wi$e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you should say to her,But somebody should be hearing,YOU have the right not to speak -you have the right to an attorny,so on and so on.
2007-03-20 01:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to her like you would talk to her as if she wasn't pregnant.
2007-03-19 23:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋