what should i say
2007-03-19 16:01:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am fourteen
2007-03-19 16:30:43 · update #1
i am fourteen
2007-03-19 16:30:44 · update #2
Hi...I would really like to know you better, maybe we could go out some time to a movie or for a coffee. (or soda or whatever) Or, do it as a group of friends may make it easier. Just be yourself and go for it. The worst thing she can say is no, and I know that is hard but if you do not go for it you will never know. Good luck to you!! :))
2007-03-19 16:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Laea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, how are you? Blah blah blah the weather, nice shoes, nice eyes (elaborate on those) talk about her and let her talk about anything she wants and be utterly fascinated by it, also if you don't know about it ask and be interested in genuinely knowing about it, even if it is stuff guys really aren't interested in like the difference between pomegranet red and apple red. After she has become enthusiastic about what she is talking about tell her you were thinking of going to X event or concert or whatever or a movie etc which you already know she is kinda interested in cuz you will have done your homework by getting friends to ask friends and such, and you would like it very much if she would go with you. Then ask her if she is interested. If you get a rejection(which may happen even if she is kinda interested in you because she may panic, and may happen if she isn't interested in you too, then don't get freaked out at all, just say 'cool' or 'ok cool' or whatever is the casual term used in your social group to convey the message 'I respect that'. Wish her a good day or something and say you gotta go for excuse reason 'x' because by then your palms will be sweaty and your nerves will be shot. If she answers yes then say when you could pick her up or whatever arangements you need or that you'll call her or whatever then use excuse reason x to go so you can get all dorky excited in private.If you fail once, try again casual like another time for something else. If you fail more than 3 or 4 times maybe she's just not interested and you need to find another woman. Hopefully you will get her the first or second try though. Good luck.
2007-03-19 16:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...umm..I don't know a whole lot about dating and all that, but as a woman myself I would have to say that honesty is the best way. Look her in the eye when you ask her. Start out by telling her the good thing's you see in her and why you have ventured to ask her. I think that would be a great way to start out. It will also let her see your asking her because you like who she is and that you have thought about those good qualities...not about how cute she is or whatever. Anyway...I hope you get your girl!
2007-03-19 16:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by merry_as_a_cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to start a convefsation with her and then eventually try to tell your real purpose of talking to her. If you know that guy much then you'll find it right to tell her that you would want to ask her out. Be sure to have the perfect date for her and miss not the right conduct whenver dating a lady. it might give you hints if she like you or not.
2007-03-19 16:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go on. Say " I want to go somewhere with you and spend some time together. I'd like to get to know you."
2007-03-19 16:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be like, yo, i see you in class or wherever all the time and I really like what I see, want to go out somewhere. Bottom line is, don't be a loser when you ask her.
2007-03-19 16:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kevo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Hey, i'm going downtown in a few minutes to get a few drinks. Wanna come?"
Something simple, direct, casual.
2007-03-19 16:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
know first what she likes...
if you said funny jokes and she hate funny jokes, its a deduction n ur chance to be his bf...
just know what she likes!
2007-03-19 16:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by cute_kuxy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how about: wanna go out sometime?
2007-03-19 16:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋