on the phone but he stopped for a while. he told me they met online and just friends. he says he called her because i was not available to talk and plus he is a truck driver. i recently checked our cell phone bill and he had talked to her for 3hrs on his cellphone. i asked him about it and he tells me its only TALKING!!! And that i dont TRUST HIM. the thing is i do trust him its the fact he is talking to another chick for that loong. Yes he and i have talked longer, so what...I have her number do you think i should give her a call? or just let it go..Am i wrong for getting upset about this issue?
2007-03-19 16:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by tenderlovincare21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you give her a call your fiance will bug out and if it is nothing then you could ruin your relationship right there...but common if you dont trust him then why are you engaged to him....maybe you need to think about what you want in life and if you are happy with this guy or not....try talking to him about it and dont let him brush the conversation off...and if you arent comfortable with him talkin to this female then tell him that its either her or you....if he truly loves you then he will choose you without a second thought
2007-03-19 16:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her and ask her whats going on with you and your bf..If she says. I mean a 3hr cell phone call is a big deal..especially if he can't call you. And if he was in love with you why in the hell would he want some random internet chicks number..?? It doesn't make since. Unless he has been seeing her when he's out driving truck. You have every right to upset.
If you want or need someone to talk to feel free to contact me. We can chat.
2007-03-19 16:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt be asking this question if you werent seriously rattled about what is going on. We have these instincts for a reason. There is no reason for a bf or a husband of any length of time turning to another woman even if it is "just to talk". Perhaps your relationship is waning, or isnt what you thought it was. Perhaps he is getting cold feet. Try to be tough about it without coming off as a "crazy insecure girlfriend". You have a right to be upset. I would confront him, and give him an ultimatum.
2007-03-19 16:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sionainn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a 3hr. conversation to a girl friend and saying there just "TALKING".
I have BOY friend but i dont talk to them that long...we say whazzup and talk for a few minutes then bye... if your a boy and have a GIRL friend same thing. we say whazzup and talk for a few minutes and then bye!
You have the right to know because your his gf and definitely you have the right the get upset because his your fiancee and you'll be married soon with him....
be OPEN about this kind of situation instead of letting it go until it'll get worse and worse....try to prevent it as possible if both of you are willing to working things out specially you guys are gonna enter a marriage.
Try to talk to him about it but dont argue with him. Approach him kindly instead of yelling at him about it. Your gonna make it worse if you try to make a fight out of it.
You will sense if there is something going on between him and this she called "just a friend"....
If you ask him/ talk to him about this girl and if he gets upset about it thats a hint theres something going on between them....cuz if there isnt he wont get upset about it and try to explain and make you understand that "they are JUST friends".....
2007-03-19 16:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no your not wrong! I would give her a call just to see what was going on what could they have possibly talked about for 3 hours??!! I mean come on now.....Lets get real..Would he like it if you talked to a male friend for 3 hours? Prob not!!
2007-03-19 16:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by mOmMyOFtWoAnGeLs! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! CALL HER>>>>NOW! Now me and you both know..its not just "talking". What do they have to talk about for 3 hrS? Come on, dont be naive. I would not let that go. I would probably move on...
2007-03-19 16:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, pang chui lao. He'd been faithful to you within five years of togetherness, dude, for you to really suspect. You should understand that every man has his own biological needs... Well... Um... One day he will stop talking to that girl. Just understand him. But if you find yourself uncomfortable of his habit, then maybe it's high time you do something about it, right???
2007-03-19 16:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think they r just friend.leave himand look anxt man.girl
2007-03-19 16:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by havalaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let go unless it keeps going on.
2007-03-19 16:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋