i'm a junior and there are two different girls that i like equally. which one should i ask out? one is a senior and i feel like if i don't ask her now i could miss my chance because she will be graduating soon. the other is a sophomore and it's possible i can lose her if i don't choose her first. please help
2007-03-19 15:16:58 · 33 answers · asked by Alex L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both girls are hot and each one thinks i'm funny. i'm pretty sure they are both into me also
2007-03-19 15:18:26 · update #1
Sheesh boy make up your mind (^,^)
Well, if you go for the senior girl. Shes a lil' older than you and your right his gonna graduate soon and then college. If you want a a lil' short-term relationship then go with her.
If you go for the sophomore girl. You'll get to know her more than the senior girl because she has 2 more yrs to stay in high school. Thats a lil' long-term relationship. then go with her.
But then again it doesnt matter which one though because If ever you fall inlove to any of the girl. If your relationship are strong enough to last then, it'll last. Even if you guys are far away to each other....Or if your relationship are not strong enough even if shes near then at the end you guys are not gonna be together.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 15:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like 237 different women. Many are famous and will never know me. Some are neighbors of various color and backgrounds and maritial status. None-the-less, I still like them!
You are young and a few years between you and them is not a big problem! Can you hold a conversation with them about nearly any topic? No problem then!
My ex (we parted peacefully) and I have a 10 year difference in age and yet we are still the best of friends. I trust her 110% and then some. A reasonable difference in age is not a big deal. When you're 41, she will be either 39 or 42 - not a big diff!
Don't let little differences like this rule your life. Choose to be with the one you love (or like a lot) and live with it! Life is way too short to sit around comparing ages!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2007-03-19 15:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, well in my opinion if u choose one over the other they are probably going to be mad at u. pick the one who u have the most in common with. *Also just think ur a junior, is the senior going to leave for college, if so is it far. u will be in highschool while she might be away in college, long distnace relationships are very hard.
2007-03-19 15:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by darlinhun05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose who u think is best for u i am having that problem now my best friend is my ex boyfriend and my new one is jealous but is the best for me except i cant seem to let go of my ex...you will loose both if u dont make a decision and fast ...trust me i know
2007-03-19 15:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by foxy_devil_child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't like both of them equally. which one likes you more? chances are that the senior will go away and find someone else at college. with the sophmore, you have at least 2 more years.
2007-03-19 15:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question you should be asking yourself is: Do I actually for real like these girls? You could possibly just be experiencing normal teenage lust. Hormones! i've seen relationships based on this: you may like them now and be head over heels or whatever, but if you were to actually be in the relationship, would your feelings last?
But hey, maybe you really do like them. If you honestly, HONESTLY believe that you do, you gotta like one or none. That's it. You have to decide which one you actually like and which one you only like lookin' at.
2007-03-19 15:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go for the senior girl cause if she is graduating soon, she will be looking at more older and mature guys(cause shes a senior) stick to the younger girl you will have much more in common!!!
2007-03-19 15:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what a Sophomore is but if it's anything like a peer ask the one out that will please you parents and be company for you when the senior is gone
2007-03-19 15:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by kevin d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for the third one. If you like these two girls equally, then I can assume you're not into both of them much. Find that third special one!
2007-03-19 15:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by Wannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE them both! Just go ahead and ask them both out. Just going on a date does not obligate you to be either one's boyfriend. You are all young and should be able to date around before having to get serious. Keep it light and casual and fun, your feelings will guide you every time (alias: your heart)
2007-03-19 15:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋