Why do I feel like the loser of teh family?

Question

My fathers an anesthesiologist, my mothers a heart surgeon and my sisters in hollywood. I seem like im always getting in trouble. Like this weekend I had a few drinks and yeah I know im underage but what do they expect out of me.Im the one who likes to have fun.I think they are all just stressed about their jobs and just take it all out on me. Not that I care that they are or what they are just how do I live up to them?

Answer 1

The only person you should live up to is yourself!
And when your family sees and understands that you're following your heart in whichever path in life you'll take, then they'll be OK with it.

Now...let's say you're getting drunk every night when you're, let's say, 35 then that would be somthing to be concerned about...

But at this stage, I wouldn't worry too much. I mean, who hasn't had a few drinks when they weren't supposed to? Give yourself a break here.

The important thing is to figure out what YOU want to do. Or what direction you want to venture into.

Let's say you're planning on going to college -- you don't even have to decide on a major for the first couple of years. You can even study abroad for a year or so (and try the excellent wines and beers of a foreign country...!).

So give yourself a break, and plan just for a year or so. Good things will happen.

And remember: their stress is not your stress! If anything, you can be the ONLY person in the family who's not stressed and takes things in stride and stays calm and collected. Don't let them rattle you.

Answer 2

Well you can start by proving yourself to be a responsible person. You maybe young but I think you need to see the world in a bigger prospective. You can have work and fun at the same time and don't let the competition get to your head. Just be yourself but a little smarter. If you are a student, concentrate on your studies and get good grades. If you are a working adult, then try to work hard and work smart. After office hours, try to gather a group of friends and do sports activities like taking up tennis, or join a yoga class to keep your body fit. Try to take things positively and don't waste your time on useless things too much.

Answer 3

All you need is luck....find something...like a bracelet you could wear...then wear it for a while and see if it give u luck....like u wear it, and ur crush asks u out... that would be ur lucky bracelet. I have a lucky bracelet..I always wear it, but not when I take showers and baths...I just wear it when I go to school and stuff. I learned to skate when I wore it.... and I was asked out by a crush...

Answer 4

You feel that way because you are having a pity party for yourself and you want people to feel sorry for you.
Start acting mature and they will treat you with more respect.