cant any guy help me?

Question

i was married and this person was single. he was younger than me. we used to play basically chess together and talk a bit. he became my best friend over a while..say 2 years. one day we just joked a bit and i asked him not to as he was engaged. but that didnt stop him. next day he felt pretty bad. then after marriage he stopped talking to me and we had fight as i called him a player. he came back after one yr and wanted me to forget the bitterness between us. it took a while but we were casual friends again. he told me that "he did not want the relationship between us to go anywhere but it just happeend..and its better we dont talk about it". we talked for 4 months and then one day he said he is busy and i was blocked/deleted. i wonder what happened. what do u think.

i wanted him to be my best friend again ..we used to talk for few mins daily though..we maintained distance and ifelt he was comfortable

Answer 1

Well if you are both married then give up. Apparently he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. He might be in love with you and it hurts him too much to talk to you. Sometimes you just have to let go and hope things work themselves out.
Did something between him and you happen.?? If he deleted and blocked you then you just have to move on...It sucks loosen a friend I have been through 2 of them in the past 2years..its not fun.
But when a door closes, another one opens..I'll gladly be your friend I just lost one today and it kinda sucks.
Well if you wanna be friend contact me.

Answer 2

he probly figured he'd cut his loses, why risk his marraige?

sounds bad but i would have done the same thing, just move on, dont try to tell his wife or anything cause that would be messed up

Answer 3

Just tell him you wanna be just good friends like before.

Answer 4

im not sure, but he might be falling for you again and again and doesnt want to ruin your marrige