theres this guy named josh,hes very cute and just moved back with his brothers back to our high school from somewhere.before his move me & my friend hung with him one time for a day.when he came back like all the girls like him,but i dont see those girls ever hanging out with him after school,although me and my friend do.he told me one time that i would be the perfect girlfriend because i told him my limits that i dont hook up with guys,drink,or smoke & that he said i was diff. because he knows alott of girls are into that.alottt of girls talk to him,flirt & hug him but with me its diff. like if im walking & i see him i glance at him then attempt to keep walking,but with him if he sees me he will walk out of his way to come hug me & see me,but with other girls he talks to the girls do all the approaching.do you think hes interested or attracted to me? how do i stand out from all the other girls for him to like me,instead of just being "another girl" so he can like me??
2007-03-19 15:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he may very well be interested. Remember he is interested in a girl who doesnt smoke, drink, party, hook up, etc. SO, if you find you and Josh get together remember these are the things he likes and respects you for. The minute you 'hook up' 'fob' with Josh, he will lose interest in you very quickly and you will be the one without Josh and regretting you forgot everthing he liked about you.
Also remember, there are many different types of shoes in the shoe store. Not everyone wants to buy the same shoe. This is ok... it is normal... and if for some reason Josh is not interested... know that he is not rejecting you but is just interested in a different shoe style.
2007-03-19 15:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definately sounds and acts attracted to you.
the fact that he goes to you when he sees you and the other girls GO TO him ..then thats special and different.
he does see you in a different way.
don't push him away. but you can give him a little feedback or (good words) but don't tell him exactly how you feel yet,it seems a little too soon and he might gain control over you.
just give him a few of the least points or reasons as to why you like him. always let him deveop the major feelings first.. until you are sure,hold back your heart and true feelings a little longer..
*PS.*continue being the girl you are because he cleary loves that. don't cahnge-you might spoil things. just be yoself.
to him,you already stand out.
2007-03-19 22:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright look if you want to stand out from all other girls you've gotta not act ditsy because that is, in fact, what other girls do. You gotta play it cool because I personally know I would love a girlfriend who can go 5 minutes without being stupid.
2007-03-19 22:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by LemmeSeeYaCardzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you are doing it already, by being different. The ball is in your court. Boys are not mind readers you have to make that clear to him. Its also in his court, after you tell him how you feel, he will have the opportunity to put words behind his actions, but if he doesnt feel the same way, its not neccesarily you. Your value is much more than what one guy thinks about you. If he is not interested, its his loss. Remembr that!!! You are the prize, not everyone is worthy of it. Good luck.
2007-03-19 22:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out if you think there is a chance
2007-03-19 22:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. ask him out.
2007-03-19 22:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋