this guy i was interested in turned me down last month, saying he was too busy and lived too far away (both true). everyone says i shouldn't contact him anymore, but i want to see him again. he's somewhat antisocial and feels like he hurt me so i know if i want to keep in touch, i'm gonna have to be the one to do something. we both said we wanted to remain friends and i'm not looking for a relationship, so i don't think i'll get hurt. should i leave him alone or email him to say hello?
2007-03-19 15:00:57 · 12 answers · asked by yayaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it doesn't matter what we tell you...it only matters hwat your heart tells you. Are you in love with him.?? If you really like him try one more time. This time tell him how you really feel. And then if there is no responce then give up. But try your hardest first,.you don't wanna look back and ask yourself... what if ?
I know what your going through and it sucks big time. Anyways if you feel like you need to chat you can contact me ok .
2007-03-19 15:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to let you down easy without hurting you're feelings. Don't contact him unless you want to be hurt. You stated he said he was too busy and lived too far away, but if he was interesed in you he could and would be willing to keep in touch and see you whenever he could. You'd be wasting your time and making a fool of yourself.
2007-03-19 15:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail him and say hello. He's probably alone. Enough time has passed, enough for him to realize he made a mistake. These days you just do not turn love away, no matter what.
2007-03-19 15:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never call a man first, girl, thats the rules! if he wants to call, he will. i understand, he's the best boy in the whole wide world and everything, but you have to follow the rules, if he doesnt have your number, and he does want to go out, too bad for him, he should have spoken up when you asked him the first time. -and thats against the rules, too, by the way.
2007-03-19 15:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He basically gave you the brush off. If he was intrested in you romantically, he would find a way to contact you. You deserve someone who doesn't require you chasing after him.
2007-03-19 15:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to say hi. Email him anyway, and if he doesn't respond, you'll know what's going on.
2007-03-19 15:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't hurt to give him a call and find out how hes doing. there also instant messaging
2007-03-19 15:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Riceguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail him maybe later he wont be too busy and come to you because you were nice to him (while he was anti-social)
2007-03-19 15:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
might as well
if he gets mad you wont see him again
if you dont call you wont see him again
so wats there to lose
2007-03-19 15:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, get that hermit out of his shell, and if he don't wanna come out just break it.
2007-03-19 15:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by LemmeSeeYaCardzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋