would you rather have a woman go and put something sexy on in the middle of it like a baby doll/teddy ect.. or would you rather her have it on under her clothes like a sexy lace bra, panties (maybe crotchless) and a garder belt, with fish net stockings...and just be surprised when u start ripping the clothes off?
2007-03-19 14:57:31 · 17 answers · asked by Mommy2Two!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason I ask, is my husband and I are going to vegas this weekend.. i want to surprise him. I have never really worn lingerie for him... so.. yeah... plus we are in our mid 20's.. thought it'd be fun and exciting
2007-03-19 15:05:06 · update #1
Both of these choices that you have posed sound deliciously naughty and your partner will be very excited either direction you decide to go. The second option sounds most appealing, because of the uber element underlying surprise and mystery. In fact, if your partner begins 'ripping your clothes off' as you so adequately stated and saw you were wearing sexy apparel underneath it would increase the tantalizing seduction and excitement, because you had intentions of sexual adventures. Either option you decide to go through with will be excellent. The fact that you are willing to dress up and enjoy your sexual endeavors with your partner shows you are not afraid to enjoy yourself. Have fun, and good luck.
2007-03-19 15:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by GR3ND3L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above… LOL
Doing always the same is boring. The best thing is to try to surprise your lover all the time. Of course, it is difficult, but if you are a little creative, and try to spice up things all the time, trust me, you will. And he will be more than happy every time to see you dress with something different.
And that goes for him too. It has to be “mutual”, both have the “duty” to try to be creative and keep sex life up all the time.
As for what I like the most, it depends on the occasion. If we are romantic and slow, then a teddy is nice. It will eventually come off, but is ok, is sexy and it call for love making.
But when we are in the middle of a passion night, like if we went out clubbing, or just out of nowhere she wants to have some crazy sex, then she better put on some erotic clothes. What you mentioned is something nice and sexy, and you can have sex without taking those off which makes things very hot.
My Wife likes to surprise me many times, and she does a very good job. I surprise her with taking her out to some new places for dinner or party, and she usually puts on some sexy clothes… top layer and under layer… LOL
Gotta love her!!
2007-03-19 15:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, absolutely surprised whenever practical! Also, don't wait to be asked for it. Just do it for him at least once a month. It's the hottest thing in the world when a woman just does that for her man because she wanted to. You're absolutely right on with the garter belts and stockings. More women should discover those! :)
2007-03-19 15:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would like to be surprised. But all men are different. Try a little variety. Dress up for him, cook for him wearing nothing but an apron and high heels. Buy his underwear and things you like seeing him in. Wear things that make you feel sexy when you go out. Keep trying different things and remember what he likes...
2007-03-19 15:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by dmjfive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lingerie is for fantasies, if i have my girld friend on the bed, the fewer pieces of clothing i have to take off of her the better. she wore it once for me, and it was kinda worthless cause she walked out into the living room with it one, then within a minute or two the $80 outfit that she had bought, was just a crumpled pile of clothes on the floor, and hasnt been worn since.
2007-03-19 15:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ed D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lace bra, panties and a garder belt, with fish net stockings i would be suprised
2007-03-19 15:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by weezy f. baby Young money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose black, purple, or purple. commonly i does not of mentioned purple, yet my fiancee in simple terms offered slightly in purple and that i enjoyed it, so now purple is on the record. Who might have theory?
2016-12-19 09:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by clumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprised. Then he can imagine you with it on on many other occasions.
As for the other -- nakedness is better anyhow.
2007-03-19 18:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the surprize tactic. heading of to change only softens the moment.
2007-03-19 15:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by mike62691 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A healthy mix of both options is my pick.
2007-03-19 15:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋