I think i'm a horrible boyfriend because i cause most my problems and i say the word "sorry" entirly to much. I would do anything for her. I'm willing to change but she don't believe in me no more and I have had this feeling in the pit of my heart so long. I wish that i could take some of the stupid things i have done and take them back but i can't and that sucks. I love her so much. I think all i'm doing is hurting her. I think all i'm gonna do is hurt her so i think she should break up with me. Even though it's gonna hurt me to have her break up with me it's gonna hurt me even more to let me hurt her. What should i do???
2007-03-19 14:55:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her be. If even you say you're a horrible boyfriend then you must really suck.
2007-03-19 14:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to love her. We ladies can be forgiving, but don't push it to far or it will most likely go badly. Try to be respectful of her feelings. The things you have done that you know are wrong, learn from those mistakes, don't repeat them. Life is hard if your going to make each others life more difficult you would both be better off apart, but if you really love one another don't let the world break you up. The choice is yours. Do whats right. Be a good guy, make her feel special, and she will love you, but if you don't have it in you to be a decent boyfriend maybe you should leave her.
2007-03-19 15:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of maturing to do. Perhaps you should break up with her and take some time to get yourself together, get grounded, and work on being a better person (since you seem to feel you haven't really been one).
When you are the best "you" that you can be, are happy with yourself and Life in general, is when you will be in a position to be a good partner to someone else.
2007-03-19 15:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 06:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r not a horrible person..take it from me..u r not.I understand u love her a lot..and perhaps she does too.U need to make a fresh start..turn a new leaf...a new page.start from the scratch...talk to her about it.tell her to give yourselves another chance.make is as beautiful for her as possible..flowers..and perhaps a special gift..something touchy..a poem or a song..hold her hands and tell her how much u love her..dont let it go now..love is a beautiful thing..good luck:)
2007-03-19 15:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to wait for her to breakup with you? you say that it is better if you two are not together. well, take the inniative to do so. the base of a relationship and of love is trust and by the way you talk, it seems that you dont even trust yourself. all there is, is pain ; pain for you and for her. there is no joy in your relationship. maybe its not the time for you two to be together or you two are not made for each other. good luck.
2007-03-19 15:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥mona♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be harsh here, but you need to grow a sack dude. Women do not like this emo thing you are projecting. Act like you are god's gift, treat your woman like she is god's gift to you, and you'll be fine. Might be too late for this relationship, but you should have more respect for yourself next time.
2007-03-19 15:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems you love her... alot, if what you said is genuine, then change for the better. if she knew you love her this much, she would believe in you.
2007-03-19 14:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋