this is a hard situation to give you an opinion on-you need to figure out what to do on your own-for one thing you have been with him for 4 years and now you suspect that you like girls as well or are confused but you still think he is the greatest-you sure have me a little confused but have you been cheating on him with a girl that you suspect it-but relize if you do decide to tell him you may freak him out a little because you are or you hid something so personal from someone that thaought he knew you so well- let me tell you it is really going to hurt him but it is your life and i hope you make a smart decision on what to do-first things first before telling him maybe you should take a break from him to make sure that that is what you really want to do ! good luck with what ever you are going to do!!
2007-03-19 15:06:16
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answered by ang925 3
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What you have to do is decide on the cost. Could this cost you your relationship and if it did would it be worth it? What you need to understand in reality there is no difference between you being with another women or if he decided to be with another women basically it's the same thing. What would your reaction be if he told you he wanted to be with another women? Some men are into lesbian relationships some are not so do you risk your love and relationship or not.
There is not a single person can truly answer that in Q&A it has to be your final decision. I'm sure some will tell to go for it unfortunatlly they have nothing to risk.....YOU DO.
2007-03-19 14:59:55
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answered by miester44 5
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You are really being unfair to him if you have let it get to this stage in your relationship with him without telling him.
You should probably get counseling to help you determine where you stand personally.
In the meantime, I would just tell him that you are not ready to get married right now and that you need some time apart to take care of some personal problems before you consider marriage.
2007-03-19 14:53:28
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answered by Latigo 3
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I doubt there is anything wrong with you other than your somewhat curious and confused. If your having any doubts at this point, it is best to reslove them before you make any long range commitments. Look into your sexuality if it is an issue and reslove it then have a serious chat with your bf and follow your heart.
2007-03-19 14:53:58
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answered by J.M.C 5
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if you really care for your bf tell him how you feel. If he can't handle it he wasn't the right one for you. If he is the right one he should be willing to help you through your problem and be there for you. Let your bf know you can't get married until you can find out who you really are.
2007-03-19 14:56:24
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answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4
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D-do you mean your a.... j/k? Uhhhh, be what you feel like but if you want to just say sorry I don't want to..... or let him join! Or just say sorry I'm not ready to take such a big step... Good Luck
Kevin
2007-03-19 14:49:58
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answered by Kevin 3
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The best thing to do is let him join in
2007-03-19 14:48:43
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answered by joe n 2
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there is no easy way to do this. think this through really hard before you make the big decision though.
2007-03-19 14:48:49
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answered by Klizzy 3
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well tell him you want to experiment with your sexuality before you get married and he'll probably understand
2007-03-19 14:51:17
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answered by Anonymous
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just ask if its ok for another girl to join both of you he will be thrilled
2007-03-19 14:48:58
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answered by Anonymous
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