Do you think it is cheating for your boyfriend to talk to other girls flirtatiously online? Mine thinks its fun and just silly games but it really hurts.
2007-03-19 14:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to understand that it's just funny and silly to be that way online and he means no harm in it. He would never hurt you or cheat on you in life so cut him some slack girl. By the way....where do you live? Want to get together some time? lol.
2007-03-20 03:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Patsfan34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how flirtatious his conversations are. My boyfriend started doing that, and soon he was asking the girl for pictures and telling her how he wished they could be closer. People are a lot braver online and it can quickly get out of hand. If it's hurting you and he knows it, he needs to stop. If he doesn't, that is just disrespectful and selfish.
2007-03-19 21:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts you and you have told him that you don't like it and he continues to do it then yeah it is cheating, because he knows that it botheres you. But you have to understand that he is still going to have girl friends, you should tell him how you feel about it. But if it is just talking on the internet then I woudl say it is OK cuz boys in realtonships do still talk to girls. As long as he dosne't take it too far or try and hang out with them I would not really worry about it.
2007-03-19 21:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts you then it's cheating... if you're okay with it and he has permission then it's not. SO... if he's continuing to do this against your wishes when he knows that it's hurting you then YES - he IS cheating. There's nothing wrong with you for it getting to you... I believe most women would agree. Guys can really be pigs.
2007-03-20 07:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah i think it is....i mean why can't he spend all of those witty lines and preciouse time tryna keep your relationship fresh and flirty!!? many ppl do it and downplay it like just cause its online and not in person it doesn't count, but in any given situation....it can easily become real cause afterall, it takes a real person to respond to all those "silly games" and what if they meet up someday? will he still claim its for fun? not to mention the fact that he is ignoring how you feel to feed his ego and continue to play around in the cyber world....if he really cared it would bother him to know that it bothers you. think about it.
2007-03-19 21:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by jmayerlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts you and he knows it, then it is cheating.
He is violating your trust, because inside you feel it is cheating.
If you ask him to stop and he doesn't, then he would rather hurt you than stop the flirting. That does not sound like "just a silly game".
2007-03-19 21:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cheating, he's hurting you emotionally and you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him about it let him know that its something that hurts your feelings, dont let him brush it off girl, one day he'll be playing around the next he'll be messing around...
2007-03-19 21:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by mexirican_chula_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating, but not good!!! I would let him know it hurts your feelings and if he continues to do it then he isn't worth it.
2007-03-19 21:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is, it can lead to other things. He should only be talkin' to you a certain way and no one else in the same manner.
2007-03-19 21:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say cheating...but if it bothers you then say something and put your foot down. If he doesn't listen give him a dose of his own medicine.
2007-03-19 21:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋