i was very briefly dating this guy i knew for a short while and he was by far the nicest bf i have had in a while....but the thing that got me was he hadn't had closure with his ex girl. after asking him many times to be honest about it, he of couse, denied his feelings for her in hopes of reassuring me that he was about me and him. so three weeks after just three weeks of dating, he dropped the bomb on me. he left me alone for his ex. he sent me a "dear Jane" text message!! not only that, but after not contacting me (and i tried to reach out to him) for a good month or so, he decides to apologize and work on rekindeling whatever we had...alothough i have another person i am working on, but we are still just friends. so after thinking about it and reconsidering his apology, i wanted us to have a clean slate. the question is, should i make it happen with him again or should i keep it at a "not happening again" level keeping it friendly?
2007-03-19 14:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by jmayerlicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep it friendly for real, he needs to know that there are consequences for doing that, so that he won't do it to future women. Be strong
2007-03-19 14:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go out with someone else. test him see what he does after you got out with someone else. see how hard he can take it for a while. that's what my ex is doing to me right now with Mr.Next cuz she dating him for the hell of it making me jealous so i think you should do the same. test em.
2007-03-19 14:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is good he figured out what he wanted..but he figured it out too late.
2007-03-19 14:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He put you as second best. You are sloppy seconds to him. F him.
2007-03-19 14:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋