I've been seeing this guy for 3 or 4 months. We have been sleeping together and it is HOT. Well he told me he is interested in another girl and he "really likes her a lot" and they have been hanging out but strictly as friends and that she is interested in another guy. Help me figure out what he means? He mean he likes her as in how? And I know she is all over the guy she likes. How could he like someone who likes someone else? And how could he be so passionate with me if he has the hots for another girl? Please help me understand??? Thanks!
2007-03-19 14:19:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he said he really likes her a lot, then move on hun. He is crushing on another girl and you deserve more!
2007-03-19 14:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to decode. He's interested in another girl and really likes her a lot. Unfortunately, the truth is looking you in the eyes. Just gather your confidence and search for a better man.
2007-03-19 14:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by lilcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I'm in the same problem as him right now. He means that he still really likes u, but he likes another girl too. This happens, even though the other girl likes another person there's no reason for him to like her. I'm really sorry to say this, but I think that u should break up with him.
2007-03-19 14:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you only for sex. Try not sleeping with him for a bit and see if he sticks around.
One of your questions was, "How could he like someone who likes someone else?"........perhaps you should ask yourself the same question.
If he came right out and told you he is interested in someone else...I can't help but wonder if you two have different expectations of your relationship. It seems like you are looking for a romantic relationship and he thinks it's "friends with benefits."
Good luck to you.
2007-03-19 14:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by mykidsrsaints 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one once told me that "you should never make someone a priority when all you are is a option" this guy seems to me that he wants his cake and eat it to. some men don't like to settle. he is still playing the field and obviously this girl is telling him something he wants to hear so my opinion if its just sex let it be just that but remember strap up always and don't let him jerk you around. ask her if you need to truly know cuz hes not going to tell you the 100% truth
2007-03-19 14:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by amanda s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will answer the second part of your question you are convenient for him and he doesn't respect you at all even if you have a open relationship there are some things better left unsaid unfortunately for you he doesn't feel this way loose him quickly a great orgasm is not that hard to find but a good man is
2007-03-19 14:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by chuck s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first.. i hope ur using condoms with this guy because if u know he is intrested in another girl and that girl is with another guy.. all that body fluid is flying all over the place. so protect urself.. I think that u was just booty for him. It is what it is..leave him be and get another one. Obvious he doesnt know what he wants...
2007-03-19 14:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he will hang out with her, with the hopes of her interests swaying more towards him than the other guy. then he will get with you and either get rid of you, or try to "play the field" by being with the both of you.. dont waste your time. enjoy the good times that you ahve had with him, but hold on much longer and those fond memories may end up being block by memories of hurt and heart ache.. its just not worth it.
2007-03-19 14:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ed D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arise? it truly is the finest i might want to arise with. i visit't imagine of a few thing for DKI. i hate this stuff. i do not have the patience for them. edit: i realized youngster round at the same time as i replaced into attempting to bypass to sleep very last evening yet I see someone already figured that out!
2016-12-02 06:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by woomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he is trying to tell you that he is interested in someone else ,but wants to sleep with you probly until he can get with her~! People cant help who they develop feelings for even if that person likes someone else~! I would quit sleeping with him even if its "hot"~! Good Luck~!:)
2007-03-19 14:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋