I might have been sexually abused (once) by my uncle when I was little... still trying to figure that out... wouldn't this make me afraid of older guys instead of attracted to them?? I'm confused... help!
2007-03-19 14:18:20 · 14 answers · asked by Katie xoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might have nothing to do with it..anyway you need help with your past.
2007-03-27 10:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To figure out if you were you might want to go to counseling to help you get to the bottom of it. It might not bother you to bad right now but it could in the future and that could be why your attracted to older guys, happens all the time.
2007-03-19 14:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it sounds like you need the help of a counselor. Have your uncle arrested for what he did, do not hide it. He may be going after others too! Call the police. Get help! It was not your fault.
2007-03-27 14:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by hot wheels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no...some people dont see the guy as a age but see's the guy as that guy...
Like my boyfriend is years older than me and when i first met him i didnt know how old he was...when i found out i didnt really care that much even if i was raped i think it has somthing to do the way you feel with a male in general
2007-03-19 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by becca . 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sweetheart , the best way to handle this situration is to stay with your own age people. older people have differant tastes than u do. and as for your uncle stay away from him until he gets mental help. also id tell your parents about your uncle. good luck sweetie!
2007-03-27 11:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by richardstz19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a professional. When the car has a knock one looks under the hood, right?
PS. Report this unless you don't care about another being infected. Would you want someone else to suffer? They will.
2007-03-27 11:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that would have an affect on how old you like your men. By the way, im sry about that. Some women like older men. Some women like younger men. Older women tend to prey on young men so they feel younger & Young women prey on older men b/c they are more experienced. I guess its a personal preference.
2007-03-27 08:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should try counseling...I don´t know you but let me tell you that no one can help you in this matter just YOU can!! and never is too late!! call a professional please! is your life and that´s not fair!!I´m very sorry to hear what you think happened to you...but you have to move on, and that´s the reason you should go! don´t wait any longer!
2007-03-27 13:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...I'm sorry to hear that. That's pretty common, though, but don't get an innocent older guy in trouble for statutory rape by lying about your age. OK? Be truthful.
2007-03-19 14:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no not always you may feel more secure with an older guy or you feel more comfortable around them instead of the younger ones
2007-03-19 14:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by bigjames t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I LIKE YOUNGER WOMEN...THAT DOES NOT MEAN I WAS RAPED BY ONE...JUST A PERSONAL PREFERENCE...SOCIALLY ATTRACTED TO THEM BECAUSE I ENJOY THIER COMPANY....FORGET ABOUT WHAT YOUR UNCLE MAY OR NOT HAVE DONE...IT IS IN THE PAST AND YOU CAN NOT CHANGE IT...JUST BE HAPPY WITH WHOM YOU ARE...AND ENJOY DATING THE TYPE OF MEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO....GOOD LUCK
2007-03-27 10:52:55 · answer #11 · answered by elz98409 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋