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i love my bf i just kind of like a other boy to butnot nearly as much as i love my boyfriend.

2007-03-19 14:16:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

It's normal 2 like other guys a little as long as ur still faithful 2 ur man.

2007-03-19 14:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by angelfire22 3 · 3 0

Its ok as long as you don't act upon it.

My suggestion though... If you really love your boyfriend and want to be with him in the long run... You really should consider keeping your distance from this other boy. And you should not talk to him too much. If you do then your feelings will develop further and you might think he will be a better boyfriend. The grass is always greener on the other side when you see something new. First interactions with someone you are attracted to always looks good because you never see their faults yet.

Hope this helps.

2007-03-19 21:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 2 · 1 0

I suppose you would have to evaluate exactly why you're having those feelings for each person. If it's purely physical, you should simply ignore it. If it's emotional, then you have a problem. Then you need to evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend, and ask yourself why you like him... I would assume that if you don't like the other guy as much, it's probably just a small infatuation. If you really love your boyfriend though, then it's not okay to like another person in that way. So you really do need to do some soul-searching about the situation.

2007-03-19 21:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by sum12stupid4u 2 · 0 0

Yes it is okay to have a crush on someone who is not your current BF, but it is wrong to ACT on those feelings while you are still with your BF.

I am married (7 years), I have little innocent crushes all the time. The crush NEVER knows, and I don't act on it. Having a crush just means that I am still alive, and normal. Since I am very secure in my relationship, I tell my husband about my crushes. He just playfully makes fun of me, and then we cuddle because he knows HE is the man in my life.

2007-03-19 21:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2 0

It is perfectly ok as long as you dont cheat on your boyfriend
trust me i have a boyfriend but i like some one else just not as much as my bf

2007-03-19 21:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by martinezk22 1 · 0 0

I do the same thing. I crush on a whole lot of other guys' looks, even though I have a boyfriend.

2007-03-19 21:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If you like your boyfriend more then don't do anything that will make him distrust you. To like some one else is ok, to try and do something about it is wrong. Like if you try to see-date this guy or are doing things to call his attention.

2007-03-19 21:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

Well, then you are just having a crush... don't worry it will go away.. if you real don't have feelings for him... Maybe its just friendship... it will take some time to fugure it out... I was in the same position once...

2007-03-19 21:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ramya D 2 · 3 0

i am married and i still like other guys but i just like them and not entertain them...
it is natural to appreciate or say like others but having a relationship with another guy is unfair to your boyfriend... try to think in your boyfriend's shoe... how does it fell?

2007-03-19 21:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by crissimayo 3 · 1 0

yes of course you'll always like someone else and your boyfriend probably does too. as long as you hide those feelings and dont do anything with another guy, then your gold :]

2007-03-19 21:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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