This girl's confused. Don't know why, but every once in a while she gets in these weird moods where she gets all moody (and it's not that time) but she resigns herself to telling me that she's inconsolable. I assume she just wants the attention but it irritates me to no end. I would, and do, give her all the attention she wants whenever she comes around. So how do I get her to tell me what she wants from us? When it's good w/ us, it's really good. And it usually is. But every so often, she gets like this and w/out any input from her, I can't help but assume she isn't sure she wants us to be together. Am I just jumping to conclusions and reading too much into it?
2007-03-19 14:13:55 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ALL girls are like this. I repeat ALL of them. I usually shy away from absolute's, but in this case it's true - just as water is always wet. When she gets in that mood, and depending on if she tells you why or not, if she doesn't say why - then there's nothing you can do. The best thing is to give her space and act normal. That way, if she lashes out in some form SHE is out of line, and will likely apologize for it later. Don't give her ammunition to shoot you with by pawning over her and gobbling down to her bitchiness - that will make her do it more often consciously or unconsciously to get your affection and attention. Give her space, act normal be a little sympathetic and be funny.
2007-03-19 14:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just one of those girls who like to keep to herself maybe she wants to be around you but not around you..know what i mean?
Like somtimes when im with my bf i lay down with him and he starts to rub me on my arm and i get moody start saying could you please stop because i dont want to be bothered with but i do want to be around you. So maybe you should just deal with her moodiness if you really love her...stop jumping to conclusions if she doesnt want to be with you trust me you'll know.
Good Luck
2007-03-19 21:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!! this is exactly what my bf tells me. and i dont usually notice it until he makes it clear to me. mmm well i cant explain it. its just weird. its one of those times when honestly i rather be alone. ill just wait for answers. doesnt it make you mad when you ask her whats wrong and she says i dont know. nothings wrong........................ but you feel like ther is.............
2007-03-19 21:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Classic Beauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it!!!!!!!
i think you are jumping to conclusions
2007-03-19 21:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by martinezk22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋