So the first guy is my bestfriends worst enymys bestfriend. the other is the guy that my friends say would be perfect for me, but I dont like him as much as the other guy. This is maddening! they both dont know i like them. I dont know what to say or who, or how to tell either of the guys! gwad, I doomed! HELP!
2007-03-19 13:50:00 · 11 answers · asked by mads4u283 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should go with the guy who makes you happy and is surly the one you desire and would be there for you always forever i hope you chose the right guy for you and not what your friend thinks
2007-03-27 13:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by alan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell either of these guys. Let them show they are interested in you. This may be a lot of unnecessary thought about something that can't happen anyway. You say you have a huge crush on 2 guys; that seems to imply that both guys are very attractive to you. And you're really acting like you have a choice who to pick? As if it makes a difference? If the one your best friend likes tells you that he likes you, then go with that. Maybe your best friend knows you so well that her choice is best.
2007-03-27 04:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what your friend thinks she cant do the things u want a man to do for u if u really like the other guy than be with him you best friend need to get a man an if she cant come to some type of common ground whit the dude u like than u can still be her friend but keep her out your relationship . it sounds like the guy didnt do any thing directly to her so what is the problem.an dont just date a guy because *she *thinks that he is th e best for you . a little advice never let a female come in between you an you man your girl friends can really mess up a good relationship.
2007-03-19 14:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by sexysyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Who gives a ****!!! about what your best friend thinks of the guy that you like alot, cause shes probably only saying that cause she probably likes him too but knows that he likes you tho so shes trying to get him!!!! Did you ever think about that??Anyways mate, Id say follow your heart, dont go with the other guy cause your so called friends thinks your perfect 2gether cause at the end of the day it all comes down to who you feel 4 the most. And its the one who she so called doesnt like. So go with him Get to knw him alot more and just be friends with the guy first, dont try too hard tho like try hard to get to knw him all at once cause it takes awhile to get 2 knw a guy... so make friends with the guy you like lots & just see where it takes you guys from there :)
All the best and for the record hun "Dont listen 2 ur friend, I knw that guys come n go and friends are forever" But sometimes friends dnt always knw whats best 4 u, u gotta think for yourslf. Just tell your friend, I knw you dont like him but I do and if ur my friend you will support me either way.
And if she is a friend she will understand, if she bursts out at you then mate she's not a friend.
All the best mate with what you do decide with
2007-03-19 14:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not doomed, alot of people feel the same way you do. I do but its three guys. What i would do is try to find out how much the guys like you, and for what reasons they like you. One of the guys i love and he knows it and he loved me at one point but i dont know how he feels anymore. The other two i dont know about, i know they like me i just dont know how much.
Hope i helped.
2007-03-27 13:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to what your friends think about whos perfect for you. If your the one that is going to possibly date him you want to make shure you like him first. I'm not saying your friends opinion doesn't count, but why should you settle for something that is second best to you because your friend said she thinks he is better for you? I think your friend is putting her personall feelings before you because you said she doesn't want you dating her enemy's bestfriend. You should ask out who ever you wan't. Don't let others pick your boyfriend unless you wan't to be unhappy. Plus she might eventually warm up to him. Good luck!
2007-03-27 13:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with who ever you like the most. Don't let your best friend determine who you want to talk to. If she doesn't like him she'll get over it if she is truly your Best friend. Just introduce yourself relax and go with the flow. Don't tell any dumb jokes or act all panicky.
2007-03-27 11:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The path that your heart makes is stronger than the path of friendship.But,boyfriends may come and go,but your girlfriend are 4ever.
2007-03-27 09:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by jada o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You're doomed. You're gonna die. Just follow your freakin heart and tell them to get used to it.
2007-03-19 13:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should tell the guy that you like more that you like him. If she's truely your friend then she'll deal with it.
2007-03-27 11:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋