There is this guy who liked me about a year ago.
He used to visit me at work, ask me out etc but I told him I wasn't interested.
Shortly after, he got a gf. They have been together for almost a year now and the other night, I saw him.
He sent me a msh the next day saying I looked good. I felt awkward so I wrote back lol but he replied that he wasn't joking and he'd come visit me at work that night.
He did visit and it was kinda awkward cos I can't tell what he's feeling.
I don't like him but he's actign kinda sleazy and he has a gf!!!
What are your thoughts? Is he just being friendly?
2007-03-19 13:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants to play on the side. It's best if you just ask him.
2007-03-19 13:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nieve-guys only do things like that for a reason especially after he told you you looked good. You don't need to say anything at all just ignore him. Your not friends with him anyway. A guy like this would only deny it anyway then make comments about you probably. If they don't get caught in a big way they will never fess up.
2007-03-19 20:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes tryin to be a "playa". be nice back to him but nothing more than nice and ask him questions about his gf and how they are doing. if you dont want anything to do with this guy than stick him to his present gf.
2007-03-19 20:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Klizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abruptly bring up his girlfriend & don't wait for any kind of emotional response, glare at him, call him an ***, then ignore whatever else he says. Worked for me.
2007-03-19 20:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by bookworm8346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a dog. If he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend he'll cheat on you to. Tell him to stay away or you'll call his girlfriend.
2007-03-19 20:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah the guy just wants to see you again, hes just bein friendly
2007-03-19 20:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a cheater good thing you found out now before you got involved with him
2007-03-19 20:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont like him - just ask him to go to his gf
2007-03-19 20:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a scum bag to me
2007-03-19 20:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bone him and send him on his way.
You will feel good knowing that you made his day.
2007-03-19 20:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋