I've fallen for my best guy friend! i don't know what to do cause he knows i like him....well one of my friends asked him in front of all his guy friends (i know not a smart move) and he was like i dont like her that way...but he flirts with me all through english and lunch...what do i do?
2007-03-19 13:36:10 · 7 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both sophmores in high school
2007-03-19 13:40:40 · update #1
well flirt back - that simple
2007-03-19 13:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him chances to ask you out. Talk about things more personal and do not talk about other people you like the more time you spend outside of school with eachother and the more time you can express your self with words and physically the less stress you to will have. You dont have to ask him out but by giving him the chance by getting to know eachother in ways you dont allready know eachother will make it obvious and if he is interested he will hang out with you more and probably move things foward if he is comfortable. I am a guy but i was in the same situation at age 13-15 and some people will go all the way up to 18 will just flirt because either they just like to flirt and are not yet comfortable with dating. My best friend who was a girl i asked out she said yes but on the date she brought her friend which was a symbol that she just wanted to be friends. Usually a guy will not bring his friend but if it is a party or a big event it does not mean the same thing. Only if it is a one on one date and they try to aviod it any way like change it to going to a party or bring their friend along. So if he does just want to be friends dont stress out about him their are many other guys and it is not worth waisting your time on any one who just has half a heart for you.
2007-03-19 20:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL! He likes you as a good female friend, not as a girlfriend sry! The is always a way as in he is scared or nervous to tell the world this..or the school in your case! :) I just want you to think about how he treats you!
2007-03-19 20:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kaybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in your situation before and he didnt like me in that way either but after a while he started to like me buh i got over him...and it went back an forth until we both were in relationships..we do regret not going out but now i found a great guy and im glad we didnt ...sumetimes its jus better to be friends and not ruin what you have...but my advice to you...date other guys and wen he finds out see what he says if hes happy for you..then you jus gotta remain friends...everything happens for a reason so jus go with the flow...goodluck
2007-03-19 20:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well flirt back with him and when he is alone(without his guy friends) work up enough nerve and talk to him about it-other than that just go with the flow-don't push anything as in demanding! good luck!
2007-03-19 20:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by ang925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU need to ask him.sometimes guys will be shy when theyr around your friends. my bf does it all the time!
2007-03-19 20:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Klizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him urself when no one's arroun. He won't say it infront of everyone. And if he doesn't like you then you'll still be friends (proabably :] )
2007-03-19 20:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by randombear7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋