ok this guy i know thinks im really hot and i think he is hot to,he doesn't have a girlfriend and i asked him out and he said that he didn't really want a girlfriend at the time!! i kinda understand because he plays a lot of sports so i can see he probably wants some freedom when will he start wanting to go out with me and do you think he will ask me?
2007-03-19 13:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by kayla H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, so I'm not a guy but I think my experience qualifies me here.
I also asked a guy out once who gave me the same excuse. He either doesn't want a girlfriend, like he said or wants so many girls he could never pick just one or doesn't like you. Don't chase after him, you are only going to make his ego grow straight thru the roof! Maybe once you make it known that you're not interested he may change his mind.
Honey, don't rack your brain trying to figure this one out, cause most women don't understand men and vice versa! Find a guy worth your time and effort who will give you his undivided attention, you deserve that and nothing less!
Good luck!
2007-03-19 14:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You already asked him out, so he knows where the honeys are biting. Why not ask him to hang out meanwhile, stressing it's not a date? Get to know him as a friend prior to romantic involvement... I wish people did that more often. Their relationships would be far less turbulent if they dated people they valued as friends.
Most dating relationships out there more resemble the relationship between a plaything and its master. Ultimately its a cold love that these people feel.
2007-03-19 20:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by dr_satan_dds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I don't know if he'll ever be if he's telling you to wait for him or something. Tell him that you're not gonna wait for him to be ready if that's possible to tell him. Look for another person because you can't wait for him forever and if he's not willing to make time for you then he shouldnt be worth waiting for
2007-03-19 20:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ...i think it needs more time when hes ready you will talk, hes busy and if you wish and pray hard enough (cant spell) you can get him dont obesse over him but dont give up
lhope i helped
2007-03-20 19:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by mikkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
magic 8 ball says (outlook good)
2007-03-19 20:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my suggestion is to be freinds with him. do stuff with him, hang out together. if they are any attraction between you two then it will come out doig this.
2007-03-19 20:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by jedi1medic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2007-03-19 20:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋