I think im fallin for this girl who happens to be my best girl friend. Meaning we are not together but we are best friends. We talk just about everyday online or text messages. We talk about anything and have gotten closer. I don't see her a whole lot mainly because im not at her college this semester but next semester i will. She tries to set me up with other women so i dobout she is felling the same way but im always thinking bout her. what do i do?
2007-03-19 13:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i am going thru the same thing! i am a girl and my best guy friend is falling for me he has told me many times and i dont feel the same way
i would recmendtalking to her and telling her that u like her and c what she says then try to get her to like u just be there all the time
2007-03-19 13:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is tough man. Okay I have witnessed situations like this and here is the best advice you could get:
1. You need to think about the future. First of all.... if you really like this girl you need to think about this: If you guys date, and then break up.... is it going to affect your friendship? Do you like her enough that you couldn't deal with not having a good relationship with her? Can you live without her?
**I have seen situations where two people are very good friends and they date... and then they never talk to eachother again! Can you handle that? Or else they do still talk.. but it is awkward. I mean obviously it will affect your relationship no matter what.
2. If she doesn't have the same feelings for you... is she going to feel awkward around you? This could possibly affect your relationship.
3. OR..... you guys could live happily ever after!
Ok, so here is what you do.... you ask a very close guy friend of yours.. someone that you can trust.... to maybe bring up the topic of you to dating like,"awww look how cute you are together", or "you guys are so perfect for eachother". See how she reacts. If she blushes or if she is uncomfortable... maybe she has hidden feelings for you. If she laughs it off and jokes right back.... she either has no feelings or she is a very good pretender.
This isn't the easiest thing to do... but just remember... this takes time!!! Maybe these feelings will eventually pass..... or maybe if you just take it slow enough and show her what a great guy you are and how much you care about her.... she will eventually feel the same way. I mean you can't scare her by opening up too fast. that can be freaky if one of your close friends all of the sudden changes.
*** look on the bright side. I am dating this guy right now who I had been hanging out with for a long time before we started dating. So when we started dating, we already knew a lot about eachother and we feel comfortable around eachother. I think this has really helped our relationship. Its been great.
So I hope this is how it works out for you!!! I really hope I helped. Good luck! =)
2007-03-19 20:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by love♥live♥dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
male and females cannot be friends.
love will always get in the way.
sound like she likes you 2 but just wants to see if you like other girls.
tell her before it's too late.
I had a friend like that, that i let get away.
BOY DO I REGRET IT...................
Go for it
2007-03-19 20:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i doubt if she does...doesnt seem like it. friends becoming more...doesnt really happen a lot. dont get your hopes up, but if she doesshow more interest in HER and YOU, go for it...
2007-03-19 20:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by Wesjtay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HUR!!
2007-03-19 20:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysluckykitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋