is there a perfect man??

Question

Its great with my guy,we love each other and live together. he thinks of me as of his future wife. but he ALWAYS looks at other girls,does it mean he is willing to cheat? and he always brings up his sexual fantasies about other grils and threesome... i hate it... are there guys who ONLY AND ALWAYS think of u, no toher girls are interesting for them, the only want u,forever... this is the guy i want... able to do anything for u and think of u as a queen... how can i get my boyfriend to be like that?? he does A LOT for me, but i need him to be all over me,and only me...

Answer 1

Work it out with your husband, boyfriend , other half to be the perfect man for you .

Relationships are a two way street.

Answer 2

ok..first of all THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MAN!!! There's not even a perfect person out there. However, with the issues you've presented, you need to discuss them with your boyfriend. If he thinks of you as his wife, he should not look at other women. I know guys do it unconciously sometimes..but if it's something he always does then you need to reconsider being with him. Tell him you're not into his fantasies. If he loves and respects you, he'll let go of those fantasies. If he's so content with you to want to make you his wife, he shouldn't have such fantasies. Marriage is between ONE man and ONE woman so if he can't commit to just have the two of you together, you should again reconsider the relationship. Please do not make yourself uncomfortable or change yourself for a man..it's not worth it. The almost perfect man will treat you like a queen, respect your wishes, love your family, etc...but he will never be perfect. You really need to talk to your boyfriend...let him know how you feel

Answer 3

Forget that sweetheart. Your man loves you very much and yes he is still going to look at other women. Men are men. That is just the way they are. Every single man looks and thinks about other women. Threesome fantasy is just a fantasy and I wouldn't be concerned unless he asks that you two really do this. But dont be depressed because I guarantee you that he is thinking of you aswell. He's just being a man. What else can you expect -really.

Answer 4

This question always gets the same answer/response from me = have you seen the cartoon about a woman sitting on a park bench? The title says "waiting for the perfect man". The picture is of ..... a SKELETON of a woman !!! Get the idea! We're all fools that dream of finding the "perfect" man when there simply is NO SUCH THING> Just as there is no perfect woman either, even though we all like to think we are!!If it feels right to you, then he is probably it for you.

Answer 5

Well, first let's step back and look at it like this: Every guy will always look at other girls.

In the same respect, all girls will always look at other guys. There is always someone better that the person you are with and that is a fact of life.

Personally, I don't date at all. The concept, to me, is pointless and it ties you down from enjoying the rest of your life.

But if you want a boyfriend that is going to treat you like a queen and think of only you, you are going to have trouble finding one.

I'm sorry.

But good luck all the same.

Peace

Answer 6

I thought there were guys that like no other girls and only like one forever. I had one, but then the forever part didn't work out. He did only like me and for now, he still does, we just couldn't work out our personality differences. But you shouldn't be with someone who looks at other women and talks about threesomes. Some guys are just like that and there is no changing them. There are guys out there that will only like YOU. There is one thing about guys that will forever remain true: you can never change them! So don't bother trying because it won't happen. Believe me, I've tried. . .

Answer 7

its impossible. your expectations are unrealistic and stupidly high. do you NEVER notice attractive men, or never have any sexual feelings about anyone else, i think you must do because it is a part of humanity.

i think you need to give your guy a break. if you become uptight about him talking about women or looking at girls on the street then he wont stop doing it - he will just do it behind your back.

i don't think I'm a bad guy but when i am going out with a girl i cant help my feelings for other random girls. the point is that trust is not about believing those feelings don't exist but believing that your partner wont act on them.

you got it.
good

Answer 8

sweet heart some where along the line they do cheat like it or lump it as the sying goes.i thought (even mum )thought me and my sister had cracked it perfect blokes..alas 2years don the line for me &4 years down the line for my sister ... It's best to cut your loses as they say darlin ...before you regret it (yes i am sure he's wild between the sheets , but, study his mind not his body , there is more life than a quick who ahh!!)your worth more than that. my sis emily said over her ex 'He did the best thing coping off with some other girl , I admit i did know that cheap perfume and i dont where bright lippy' So now i have money back in me pocket &i can close me front door cuddle up to me dogs they are more faithful and loving. Remember men only want one thing (unless your loaded)and us to pay the bills ..please its time to sit and thinkREALLY THINK!! ..THERE'S TOO MUCH HURT IN THE WORLD..who knows The REAL Mr right is round the corner . you sound like a pure diamond ,go easy on yourself , have a few girlie nights out spoil YOURSELF not him he can, survive himself after all he is like an hawk..stand up ,be you ,Show you dont need him 24/7..After all HEcould be the weakest link ... Us Women are the back bone of our countries...

Answer 9

4 years ago, I asked myself the same question, because I was in a similar relationship. The truth is, I think there is someone out there who will look only at you, fantasize about you, treat you as their one and only queen.

If it makes you uncomfortable hearing your BF talk about other girls, try to dissect what he is actually getting at when he does so. Is he commenting on their hair style, their complexion, their body parts? I think these things are mere observations and things he appreciates and finds attractive in females. If things go further, and he begins giving his phone number to strange women, getting strange phone calls, changing his patterns-- then it's time to suspect.

Either way, I am positive there is someone who will "worship" you and only you. However, there could be other tradeoffs to such affections, so be careful how you tread, and try talking to him and telling him how you feel before you make any life-changing decisions. See how he reacts and tries to make you feel better first. Try to work it out, and good luck to you!

Answer 10

It's hard for a guy not to look at other chicks, but if he's with his lady he should at least try and make it suttle. If he's with you then he should respect you and not bring up stuff that offends you, maybe you should tell him that it bothers you when he talks like that. Or just try one of his fantasies but then he has to do one of yours....
If you do that make an agreement first that you both feel is equal, and then do it. Remember you only live once....

Answer 11

There is no such a thing as a "perfect guy".. I know that for sure... Even he loves you very much he would still look at other girls and might cheat on you. It's our nature... I wish we could be different, but that's the truth.. Sorry