i like this guy, right? and so i told him that i did a couple years ago, and it didn't go so well ( no need to get into details ). and ever since then i would get a feeling, you know like someone's watching you, so i turn around and there he is staring. i keep thinking that he's probably looking at another girl behind me or something, but my friends say he is looking at me. i have recently learned that he has talked about me with his friends ( in a good way ) now i have no idea what to do, i don't want to ask him out ( i'm really too shy ) and i'm too confused. i'm woundering if there is something about me that is making him not like me. plz help!
2007-03-19 13:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jennie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is most likely developing an interest in you. Give it some time and you might be able to see what's up with him. And no, there's nothing wrong with you. :) Good luck.
2007-03-19 13:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you! I was the same way in high school. In fact, I would say you're completely normal. So, you're a little shy (or a lot). There are ways to overcome that and one way is to just get to know him. The next time you catch him staring at you - wave at him or smile. Eventually, he'll come and talk to you. You might even tell one of your friends to tell him or one of his friends that you would like to talk to him, but can't get up the nerve to go to him yourself.
Other advice: Try small talk. Just say "Hi" as you pass him in the hall. When you feel a little more confident you might try an open ended question like, "What'd you think of that homework assignment last night?" "Have you seen that new movie, __________, yet? I was just wondering if it was any good."
2007-03-21 04:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh plz for me just ask him out, i mean if he says yes well there u have a perfect couple. If he says no well get over it flirt with another guy maybe in a way he might get jealous and there u go a perfect way to get him.
2007-03-19 13:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by we_love_him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him. Do it in an innocent way and then see if he's interested. If he's not you'll know, but if he is, there is no telling where you could end up (like in his arms).
2007-03-19 13:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by bretwm1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know you so I can't say what's "wrong" with you. But honestly, if a guy is worth it he won't see anything wrong with you in the first place. I dunno. Just wait for him to make the first move. Don't worry aboout it. If he comes to you great! If not don't sweat it
2007-03-19 13:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know!did you say something to someone about him and he found out about it,or did you do something to him?it sounds to me he likes you.
2007-03-19 13:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋