Girl help please?

Question

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it. the next day my friend overheard her and her best friends conversation and said her best friend said"so are you gunna go out wwith him" and she said i don't know. they also said she was really really happy i asked her out. the weird thing is after likea week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. also today in class we were reading this romantic story outloud and she kept staring at me with her head in her hands and looked kinda like she was daydreaming.(0) like this ( =hands 0=head
i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also transferring to a different school in may.when i saw her today my heart started beating in a way i never felt before it was........i dunno what to do . should i try again?

Answer 1

It sounds like the girl you asked out took too much advice from her friends, and maybe didn't follow her heart.

If her very presence gives you the "butterflies," I'd say try to get her alone at school, or slip her a note asking her to meet you at Starbucks or something where it's public but you can be in a private conversation and just tell her how you feel about her. Make sure her friends and your friends aren't around, or at least nearby. That way, you can hopefully discover how she really feels. If you crash and burn, don't worry, the next girl will be that much better. If you succeed, savor the good memories you will surely create. Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

awwww well she probably does like you but maybe she is scared that she will get into a deep relationship and then have to transfer and that would be really hard on her and you because then you 2 would never see each other....but she probably does have feelings for you but is scared of the commitment part since she is transferring...but the whole part of your heart beating like it did showed that you care about her a lot..... i wouldn't try again because then its kinda pushy but you should talk to her and just casually ask her why she said no and tell her that you still like her and just stay friends.....
hope everything works for you!!

Answer 3

you need to get her somewhere you can talk with out her friends or yours around, and just ask her straight out, what's going on with her. How does it work that her friends tell you that she said no? Why can't SHE tell you? I think she obviously likes you very much. But there is something weird going on. Do you know anything about her family life? are her parents overly strict? Maybe she CAN"T go out with you.

Answer 4

ask her why she said no and if her friends were so involved they might have told her not to go out with you for some reason maybe one of her friends liked you first and its kind of in girl code not to go out with a guy if your friend liked him before you did i think that you should just e-mail her or talk to her about it

Answer 5

weird but i think she's shy around you because she said no to you but you should maybe ask her again because she might have said no b/c her friends didnt think you were cute and she really did like you.

Answer 6

please try again u guys both seem to be in love she was just nervous and unsure. i bet u if u ask her again she will say yes and u 2 will last long and be good to each other she is thinking about if her and her bff where talking its cuz she is probablyy always talking about u.

Answer 7

it seems like she does like you but maybe she's not ready to go out yet. she shows some signs that she likes you. just give her some time or try talking to her about it.

Answer 8

it means that you are both young... Grow up ask her outright whats going on, and don't walk off without a answer

Answer 9

try again and don't like let her say i'll think abt it tell her that you need an answer now

Answer 10

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