2007-03-19 13:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by vanessa b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys who get a lot of girls (read: are careless with their relationships; take their girlfriends for granted; another fish is swimming right next to her anyway) like girls who play hard to get. It's about the chase and conquering the girl for them. And since you appeared to not care so much about them they feel less guilty about dumping you when they are done chewing you up.
I like girls who are honest and don't play games. Never met one, but I like the idea of a girl who is honest and doesn't play games. I will say this, a girl who respects herself enough to 1) be honest and 2) know her boundaries and will defend them and so 3) respect her relationships is a huge turn on. If it was a (TEENY) bit of a chore for ME to win her heart, it should be DOUBLY so difficult for another guy to win her heart. So don't be easy either.
2007-03-19 13:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they like it. if u come off to easy than they will think u are a ho .an they will just have sex with u and leave but if u play hard to get than they will like it because it like a challenge and all men enjoy some thing they have to work for but if u like the guy dont play to hard because they might just move on to the next chase and if u r a true freak never let a man know act like a virgin and after a while put it on him
2007-03-19 20:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by sexysyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy
for example if the guy is hot and knows he could get any girl he wants.......you have to play hard to get. he will get all confused and think that your some thing special because your the only girl that doesn't seem to like him and he will want you more. (pride)
but if the guy is average......flirt a lot but don't seem too easy either.
basically every guy likes a girl that knows how to play the game. even thought many guys say they don't (the only reason for that is because they like the girl a lot and are confused)
but the hot guy, that knows he could get any girl, are more easier to play....all you have to do is look at them one day, ignore them the next day......and that will have him go crazy for you.
2007-03-19 20:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by kiren a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never liked it when a girl played hard to get....it's like an unnecessary game they sometimes play. I look at it like this: if you like someone, why not let them know? If they're a good person for you, they won't take advantage of you, and they'll be happy that you don't have to resort to playing games to get
2007-03-19 20:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by josh m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a girl who's got something to say and an opinion on the world that i can talk to.
i think alot of girls are self conscious about being interesting and try to hide it through a veil of attitude.
it usually doesnt work though. i find girls that act like they are bored annoying and boring.
2007-03-19 20:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by splinter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, i like it when a girl IS hard to get, not just play hard to get...
2007-03-19 20:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by The Don 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion since i am a guy i hate it because it feels like she hates you all together i like a reliable straight forward girls who can express herself, not in a slutty way but a conservative way
2007-03-19 20:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH SOME TIMES BUT DON'T PLAY TOO LONG YOU MIGHT MISS THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS
2007-03-19 20:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by BigCat4LiLMissKittyPurrrrrrrrrrr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, guys love it when their ego boosts up.
2007-03-19 20:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no not me that makes me think that they they their to good for me that makes me angry but others might think differently
2007-03-19 20:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋