how can I tell if he likes me or is just messing with me..?

Question

I like 2 guys...i've liked them for a year. one is zac and he goes to my school the other is adam[ my ex ] and he goes to the rink.

well...adam..he told me friday he liked me a lot but then my friend turned around..started flirting with him a lot and they ended up kissing a few times..then he went after that chick left and held hands with his ex..which he still likes.. so I dont really know if he likes me or not..but after i saw all that go on...i ended up crying 4 times that night..

Zac..i've known since the end of last year. [ my freshmen year] he is now a senior. which sucks majorly. But Last month i asked if he liked me threw a text and he said " i guess kinda lol j/k but seriously or i wouldnt try anything with ya ". then i didnt understand so i asked him on myspace and he said yes. But now..i just dont know. If he liked me and all..dont you think he would have made a move by now. I mean he did call me friday night and wanted to hang out but i had plans..what do i do..

Well so far...me and zac MIGHT hang out this weekend...so whatever happenes happens..
but adam...he's ignoring me now...&& him and his ex are most likly gonna get back together soon.
but yeah...
anymore suggestions?

Answer 1

they both sound like immature kids.

Move on and wait for the right person to come along.

Answer 2

try to set up a time to hang with Zac and see what happens. As for your ex, i'd personally say, give up on him

Answer 3

jeese what a jerk adam for kissin this girl then holding hands with his ex after she left, thats harsh. i would give up on him too much of a playa. we hav one a those in our grade (8 yes i know...) hes sick. i say wait and see wat happens with zac but consider this, ur lucky that u actually hav the nerve to ask a guy if he likes you! personnally i don't..... well i like this one guys see, but you don't wanne hear bout that. see what happens with zac, forget about adam.