The situation is my gf is great and so is our relationship. But every once in a while she gets pretty worked up and emotional w/ seemingly little provocation. And I'm fine w/ it, I really am, that's a girl's right, anyone's right for that matter, but almost every time it happens, she gets weird and distant w/ me. I want to cheer her up, or at least try, but I'm not going to work to see her (sometimes I think it would take begging) when she gets like this. And, of course, I am asking b/c she's doing it right now. I think I am innately attracted to her b/c I can tell, have always been able to tell, that she IS emotional, she just sorta loses it every once in a while. How do I tell her that I actually like the fact that she has so much depth to her w/out making it seem like I am going, even willing to, fight thru this emo. hurdle w/ her every time she gets like this?
2007-03-19 12:46:12 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's great that you appreciate your relationship with her. i think the simplest and best way to go is to be strait foreward with her. Tell her, "But every once in a while she gets pretty worked up and emotional w/ seemingly little provocation. And I'm fine w/ it, I really am, that's a girl's right, anyone's right for that matter, but almost every time it happens, she gets weird and distant w/ me. I want to cheer her up, or at least try, but I'm not going to work to see her (sometimes I think it would take begging) when she gets like this." a relationship is about being completely honest with one another. Perhaps you should ask her why she thinks you two become distant. that would be the honest thing to do.
2007-03-19 12:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be time of her month. give her some chocolate or dessert to pass her swing mood.
2007-03-19 19:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think she just wants attn or maybe its present or past issues at home
2007-03-19 19:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋