SOme guys told me it was wrong for girls to ask out guys, because the guys will most likely to say no. Is this true?
2007-03-19 12:39:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, depends on the guy.
Most guys like a girl with self-confidence so asking him out first shows that you are interested without having to play the 'game'.
Most of my serious relationships I have been in actually started out from the girl making advances on me instead of me starting it.
There's nothing more sexy than a girl letting someone know what they want. Atleast for me... =P
2007-03-19 12:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by eno.geo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some guys are too shy or embarrassed to ask out a girl. Ask away, girl. Like some people have said, "This isn't the 1950s!"
Society has changed much since that time. Guys used to be the only ones who were accepted as able to initiate a date. Closer to home in the 21st century, girls ask guys out just as much as guys ask out girls. It is acceptable to ask out a guy. Heck, it is even okay for the girl to pay for the date, though not all the time since people need to pull their own weight.
So, ask away. Whoever told you it was wrong for girls to ask out guys was probably some macho, sexist guy who didn't know what he was talking about. Guys won't say no. They might actually be intrigued.
2007-03-19 15:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw it ain't. You know how us ladies are, we tough and we stay strong. Guys are a bit shy & sometimes never make their move it really is annoying how girls gotta do it all lol but of course not it's not wrong! If he wont make his move first then go for it! Guys just say alot of things cause there afraid to lose their guy friend. But make sure you do it at a right time. make sure you & the guy you like are good friends its easier and if you don't take the risk then what's the point? Trust me I done this before and Im good. So good luck! <3
2007-03-19 12:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Babee Snapzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha I ONLY ask out guys, I find that guys who approach me are usually arrogant jerks. Althogh I don't know about ALL guys, I can say that I have never been turned down by a guy I approached. I actually approached my current boyfriend 3 months ago :) Just make sure that the guy you are approaching is worth your time :)
2007-03-19 12:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing wrong with the girl asking a guy out. I find it very appealing.
2007-03-19 12:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant say that is wrong but.. i think is better a boy to ask a girl not the opposite, it is a boys work to risk it and chase his chances not a girls.. Me personally i would say no to girl because he asked me out but i would like it, i would prefer me to ask her out as it usual happens.. good luck whatever u do!
2007-03-19 12:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are so slow,they need a little help.Sometimes we just can't sit and wait for them to make a move,we have to do something.Anyway,make him think it was his idea,so he can feel better,if he likes you,he will ask you out.Good Luck!
2007-03-19 12:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! You go ahead and ask a guy out, i betcha that this guy will find you even more attractive, considering ur brave enough to ask someone out!
;) goodluck!
2007-03-19 12:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by ~Flutergirl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no. guys egos are boosted when they are approached by a female. Then they think that they're big stuff if they have attracted members of the oppisite sex.
2007-03-19 12:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by 5thRoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy friends told me the same thing.. but if you know foresure he likes you then you should go for it! trust me =] i've been in that situation
2007-03-19 12:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Vikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋