I have a question about this guy I am ttly crushing on. He treats me with respect, kindness, and he is always nice to me. He would be the perfect boyfriend, because all of my other guys I dumped were THE WORST!!! I feel I can relate to him. We talk a lot and we alawys cheer each other up when one of us is sad. He tells me that I am awesome and that I am nicer than most girls. But there is only one thing that stands in the way: another guy who doesn't like me, and he is very nice too, but I also like him. He is very self-centered but he is ADORABLE!! He always makes me laugh and have a good time. He always wants to hang out just as friends, and I hear rumors that he said he wants to date me. I don't know which guy is better, but I think I like the first one more. One of the hardest factors is that they are both best friends! Ya, I know SCARY! But, anyways, I guess that the realy questions I am trying to ask are: which guy should I chose? And how do I know if that the first guy likes me?
2007-03-19 12:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by miss cutie 4 eva 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW. That is a crazy situation.... I think you should go with the first guy because if the other guy is self-centered he might blow you off and just think about him-self. The other guy on the other hand is nice (or so you say...) and treats you well. If he has fun with you and thinks your nicer than most girls then thats probably because he likes you. Thats what I think....
2007-03-19 12:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my decision, I would choose the first guy - hands down. Self-centered guys are jerks - you want someone who will appreciate you and think about others, not just himself. Although you are not sure the first guy likes you, be brave and tell him how you feel about him. If he doesn't like you in return, then just remain friends - and who knows - he may feel romantic feelings for you somewhere down the road. As far as the second guy, stay his friend - and see what happens. If he is interested in you, let him come to you... Have self-respect - don't ever chase a guy. I have learned the hard way that I should never pursue a guy who doesn't have feelings for me. Now I sit back and see who comes to me. Good luck with everything.
2007-03-19 19:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by trueimage_libra09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worrying about which guy to date, where one is self-centered and for the most part will certainly not treat you the way you deserve to be treated - I say that you are not ready to date either of them.
You will know if the first guy likes you if he comes up and tells you or asks you out. And if you have to ask a bunch of strangers online which guy you should choose, then you are most certainly not fit to date either guy as I said before. Try and learn what kind of qualities and characteristics you want in a guy and then you would have a better chance at knowing what kind of guy YOU should choose - and not have to ask strangers. all the best!
2007-03-19 19:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, you really want to get involved between 2 best friends? I've done it too many times, and although kinda hot when the 3 of us hang together, it gets weird after awhile. Then, you hide stuff from each other, who's talking smack, which one you hung out with-and they know each other's stuff. Know this: if you pick, they're best friendship shall cease. If you can deal, got for it. Good luck ~N
2007-03-19 19:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by pitsargenaf 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should choose the guy that best suits u , u would be betta off dat way and just look at the first guy u talked about he seems really cool i would say him but ayy thats just me
2007-03-19 19:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the first one. self centered guys will get old fast.
2007-03-19 19:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Elie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one you want to be with, deep in your gut. Be selfish for a moment and just ask yourself who you want more. Choose him.
2007-03-19 19:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋