ok i really need your help?

Question

ok i just wrote some questions
now my ex is saying i love you and saying that my friend wanted him but i know he was the one and also he wants me to go to his house now and make out and have $ex...i really dont know what to do.. hes like begging me to go out with him again and i dont know if a should and he keeps calling my house and saying come over and have $ex and make out and i just hang up but he keeps calling back!!!!!






i really really need your help

Answer 1

You need to stand your ground. Instead of just haning up, be firm and cruel if you need to. He cannot keep calling and asking you to do that. it would be different if you liked him, but it still should be said more tastefully. If I were you I would say. With firm/strong voice, that I do not want to have sex with you not now not ever, and you need to learn some self respect and move on. It is border line desperate. You only need to say the mean stuff if you feel it is necessary. Good luck. Never let a boy/man treat you that way and get away with it.

Answer 2

can i ask you a question? have you asked yourself what you want in a relationship? do you want a guy that likes other girls and wants to have sex when your not going out...a guy that bugs you about having sex period? There's not right or wrong answer just as long as your honest with yourself. let me ask you another question...do you have any idea about the other guys that could be right under your nose that would love you 10 times better...? maybe there is a reason you two broke up...there's always a reason...but what is it?

Answer 3

Well, I'm only 13, but I think if a guy (which I am one) asks you to have sex constantly, he may be a pervert. But if he like really likes you and all, maybe you'll like him back.
Just ask him if he only likes your body, or if he really does love you.
If he does love you, maybe make a deal with him, like if he goes out with you, he can't have sex with you, but if he says no, tell him your not his then, he'll probably either do nothing (means he's a pervert), or try and talk to you again (meaning he likes you). Well, hope everything goes out good.

Answer 4

don't go over there. just if u like him talk to him. then if u start going into a serious relationship u can go over to his house for $ex. if he's ur ex, people will start thinking lower of u. and isn't he being a little too desperate?

Answer 5

What a yahoo! He doesn't respect you enough to listen to your "NO", and then says your friend is after him? He is just desperate and you should think about if you need this aggravation. You are the only one who can draw the respect lines on how people treat you, don't give in.

Answer 6

He just wants sex. Stay home and stop talking to him. You said yourself that you know he's lying to you.

By the way, sex is not a bad word. You don't have to write "$ex" because it will not be censored. Sounds like you're too young to be having sex anyway.

Answer 7

Hes just gonna use you just dont stop by his house or answer the phone juist click end no matter how bad it kills u stay away from him hes a perv!

Have a nice day,
Amber good luck

Answer 8

He's desperate. Don't go over a desperate guy's house, it could be dangerous.... He needs to give you respect. Tell him flat out, no. If you don't want that you have every right to deny his request. Good Luck....

Answer 9

Typical male, the beast! Men only want one thing, I know, I'm a man. Spew him out like so much mental vomit and go find someone new.

Answer 10

i had the same ssue....
tell him that ur interested in someone else!!
or that hes moving to fast.
or that he already hadhis chance.
or avoid him at ALL cost.
or tell him u cant date at the moment because of something.
or hey have a friend call him and cuss him...my fav!
or finally sit him down and tell him howu feel... thats the hardest one to do!


good luck! its a difficult one!!!