Ok, me and my girlfriend have been together bout 2 yrs now, and the woman can't ever consider my feelings on anything. She is faithful but thats but it. She just does whatever never thinkin bout how i feel bout it or how I'll react, and when i do get upset she honestly doesnt know what I'm upset bout no mattter how many times i explain it which then just makes me even more upset.
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2007-03-19 12:23:50 · 6 answers · asked by Big Daddy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah- you know, I used to be the same way...lol. I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. I was really selfish. I mean, I've always been really caring and supportive of my boyfriend, but when it came to "oh I'll be back home at this time!..let's hang out this weekend" ...somehow, many times I never kept true to my word...leaving him stuck at home waiting for me to get home. Or sometimes, I just always made things be my way.
I don't know- I've tried being much better about it, but it takes a lot of work. I know- it's so little to ask for is just a little bit of understanding but hm yeah.
Anyways...To love is to put the other's good before yours. If you've tried explaining it to her, and she just doesn't get it then give her an ultimatum that it's either only caring about herself, or the relationship..and if it's herself then yeah- just dump her. It's not worth your suffering. But if the good outweighs the bad...then take the benefit of the doubt. Just don't do anything that you kno you'll regret..
2007-03-19 12:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years, the precedent has already been firmly established. It's an all or nothing proposition. Does the good outweigh the bad or not?
2007-03-19 19:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what bothers you... see if she tries to understand you and act more considerately... dont argue with her,just tell her that you love her and want her to be the best she can for you...dont fight or yell at her,it wont work.
2007-03-19 19:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lora W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should deifently dump her its not rite for a girl not to respect there man hope things work out for u
2007-03-19 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by trackstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her! tell her what you just told us very calmly, and if she yells at you, just say "it's over." and walk away. or run, if she chases you lol.
2007-03-19 19:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then why are you still with her?
2007-03-19 19:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by psgr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋