2007-03-19 12:22:11 · 36 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all wish it was that way, but it ain't. There's always that
nagging question in the back of your mind for a lot of years afterwards. However, with time it becomes less and less apparent and you can kind of relax.
2007-03-19 12:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that meeting the right person causes a great deal of insecurity in a way. We get so obsessed by them cannot think of anyone else but them. Often nights tossing and turning thinking of them wondering if they feel the same as you. So although love is such a glorious state to be in no I would say that it can be extremely confusing. That said I would just love to meet the right person AGAIN.
2007-03-19 12:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Loobyloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... everything falls into place but you still need to put work in to keep it all in place
No ... if anything you may feel MORE insecure but that will go over time and if you have the right partner then they will understand and help you along the way
p.s. for the lass above. I am a Christian but let me remind you "God helps those who help themselves". If you find the right person then they can help just as much as God can.
2007-03-19 12:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by DTR28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are insecure, it doesn't matter who you meet. Love isn't magic. You have to actively choose the person who is right for you, not just hope they fall into your lap. Even then, you might have moments of insecurity. You just have to be mature enough to recognize when you have a legitimate reason to be worried, or if you are just feeling bad that day.
2007-03-19 12:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How wonderful that would be! But the truth is, feeling secure comes from the INSIDE. If, you feel insecure on the inside, there is no one on earth who can change that. They can make you feel "better" for a little while, but that's not much better than a band aid. As well as nothing "falls into place" unless you fully perceive your unique self, become dedicated to the life you want, & never depend on another to make it so for you, however much they may love you.
2007-03-20 12:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It takes time to know its the right person. Enjoy whatever experience you are having right now, but to get it right, give it time! By the way, when you do find that knight in shining armour - nothing falls into place and you will not always feel secure, but that life! Good luck!
2007-03-19 12:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by shirley p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of the time it falls into place and you feel secure, but when I became ill, I felt very insecure, which made things fall out of place, it was my feelings totally, not my other half.
2007-03-19 12:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think no matter how good the relationship is there are always time of insecurity, the feeling comes and goes, it almost like a time when you need to put more effort and work into your relationship, to get that feeling out of your system.
2007-03-19 12:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to be secure with yourself first then when you find the right person everything will fall in place..But relationships require work and you have to be willing to put in some work.
2007-03-19 12:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of expecting things to "fall into place" see if they "fit together".
Insecurity is within you. Meeting someone will not cure it.
2007-03-19 12:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you meet the right person and get to know them over a period of time (a year or so) you feel contented, happy, secure, at peace, and excited about the future. Love is easy when it's with the right person.
2007-03-19 12:25:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋