you were interested in him? Or did you have to go out a few more times to know for sure? I have been talking to this guy on the phone for 2 weeks then we went out. We have sooo much in common. He is practialy a clone of me just a male, lol. Its just how do you know if he is worth dating? When do you start devloping feelings? Does that take time in order to know if he is the one?
2007-03-19 12:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its funny because, I starting dating again about 2 months ago, and its like a job interview, I have had a few dates where we got on really well on the phone, and then in person it was blah, and the guy I just started dating exclusively, I was kinda not sure from the phone conversations, but we could im for hours, then after we started really going out I realized how much I was attracted to him.
Now its been about 3 weeks, and I am getting comfy with him, we get along fantastically and are very attracted to each other in a variety of ways.
So it really depends, I think that attraction can be immediate, but it does takes a little bit to see if the personalities fit.
2007-03-19 12:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the beginning of relationships, its always the exciting part because both of you are just learning about each other and discovering what you guys have in common. At this stage you may feel that this guy may be "the one" for you or just the perfect guy. He'll say the sweetest things to you making you feel very special and tell you he's going to be with you forever. But later on, when you guys know each other well enough, things start to change, the relationship will either get bored or have problems. Then later on it may be possible for one of you guys to lose feelings for the other one. Then you will realize that the things he promised you at the beginning of the relationship wasnt true.
So the bottom line is that you can never tell if anyone is the right person for you when you guys havent been together long enough yet. You need time to learn everything about him before you can judge wheter he's the right one or not. The person you are with now may seem that he's the most perfect man in the world for you, but later on treat you like crap.
But always trust your instincts! They're usually right.
2007-03-19 19:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be almost instant.. from the beginning there has to be a reason you wanna start talking... if after say for example 3 dates you don't see yourself in a relationship then i would suggest not to pursue it because you never wanna force anything. It should just feel right...
2007-03-19 19:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mm well I felt it 2 days after meeting him.
And if you really spend time with him, you should know on the first date.
Too identical is also not so good.
But don't worry, it could work out.
Sorry that I can't help much.
oxox, good luck!.
2007-03-19 19:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ive T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gradually develops.
2007-03-19 19:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Depressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't know until we finish inside of you.
2007-03-19 19:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew straight away
2007-03-19 19:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by *L-I-V-E* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋