i thin k my girl is cheatin on me what should i do?

Answer 1

depends ... what makes you think that she's cheating (it kinda helps with what you should do)

Answer 2

There were two answers above that each have part of the likely answer.

The first thing is that you've got to talk to her about your suspicions. Be sure that she understands exactly why you feel the way you do. If she is cheating on you, then that will let her know that the game is almost up. Depending on what she's really up to and her personality type, a number of things can result from that conversation. She might have explanations for her behavior that will reassure you; if she is cheating but it's not very serious, she might be moved to break off the other relationship rather than lose you, she might feign indignation at your lack of trust and break off with you; if the other relationship is serious, she might be honest about it and break it off with you in its favor; or she might try to hide the other relationship and be dishonest with you. The truth is that there are all kinds of possibilities.

If she is cheating, count on it, sooner or later it will become obvious. I think that trust is so integral to a successful relationship that, if you truly suspect her, then you have little choice other than to talk to her about it. The alternative is to try to keep a relationship going that is unhealthy and lacks trust. This wouldn't do either of you any good.

However, if you are going to talk to her about it, be ready for some heartbreak. If you find out that she is, and that's too serious a breach for you to live with, then you'll likely have to break it off with her for the sake of your emotional health.

Another way to "handle it" is to do nothing until the fact that she is cheating does become obvious. I don't recommend this option because of the damage it could do to you in the mean time.

Sorry you're going through this.

Answer 3

Hey Jesse,
Do you and the g/f have a good and trusting relationship? Sounds to me as though you both need to have a sit down talk where you can (WITHOUT ACCUSING HER) point out that you've been having these feelings that....

Watch her response and listen to her answers.

Don't even think about this tit-4-tat stuff, no one is ever happy about that.

Answer 4

confront her about it man that just some Bullshit bra its not worht having a relationship wit a girl dats cheatin i mean it sont even work wit da guys so ur off betta jus leavin her

Answer 5

why do people ask when the answer is quite obvious.....u are not gonna know anything, u will drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. spare yourself the even hurting and ask her. if she says yes, then ya really need to dump her. once a cheater always a cheater. p.s.-delayed response....means shes lying and shes been cheating

Answer 6

Best way to deal about this situation is to do nothing...You"ll find out sooner or later...Hopefully sooner.

If you're suspicious...I wouldn't put a ring on her finger. Just be cool and wait a bit.

Or just ask her.

Study her expression.. it may blow her cover.

Answer 7

if u r suspicious at all leave b 4 u get hurt or u can ask her to b honest u at least deserve that rather then have her sneek around.good luck

Answer 8

well you shold at least find proofe of that first if she is acting shady alot around you like not wanting to do any thing and stuff like that then yeah shes probably cheating i know its happend to me a lot

Answer 9

If you are not married, she can choose to be with anyone she wants. Single people can not "cheat" because they are not legally married.

Do nothing. Dump her and move forward.

Answer 10

just relax look for someone else when meet or in relation with another one leave her,if u dint u will be jealous u might end up kill her