I am trying to get my girlfriend to let me do the naughtiest of acts with her, and she says she has never tried it and is curious but not keen. How can i convince her?
2007-03-19 12:10:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no use in trying to persuade her - she'll only end up resenting u for pressurising her to do something that she doesn't want to do.... if the reason why she's said no is because she's worried about whether or not she'll like it, then see if she would be ok with u using a finger.... (not trying to offend anyone with this answer ! just trying to offer advice ! )
2007-03-19 12:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt be a case of trying to convince her.
Talk to her, be honest. Ask if you can try anal foreplay. Try it yourself too. Have fun together and let it happen naturally. If you stick to fingers at first (lube really makes a difference even when your only using small things) then find out if she likes it, how she likes it and get to know what buttons to press then if you do it right she'll be begging you to climb on full throttle.
Never be frightened to try new things. Taboo is so out moded. Live a little.
2007-03-20 09:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Raven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i might be the only person to actually take this seriously but it took my husband three years we talked about it and approached it cautiously he didnt pressure me which is probably what you are doing wrong be patient it hurts for girls to do this at first but if you are commited to doing it right it will eventually feel good. Try to get her to talk about what she wants to try and see if you can negotiate a trade off you may have to try something taboo as well. if she is curious then she is way more willing to do this for you but read some books on it and let her know the ways it can pleasure her too.
2007-03-20 01:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her shove something up your back door and see how much you like it!, if your eye's fill with tears and you feel like your going to $hit through the eye of a needle, i wouldn't go there mate.
Dont pester her, if she's not keen on up hill gardening leave it, i dont think i'd much like my old man hanging out of my back door!
2007-03-19 19:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to start off with, you shouldn't try and "convince" her. But ultimately if she is comfortable with you it will feel good for her. Make her feel loved and safe.
ex1) I did it with a guy who abused me, I hated it and it hurt more than anything in the world
ex2) I feel so loved and protected by my current boyfriend and I love it.
Try it with her on her back laying down and put her legs on your shoulders and enter her that way(It feels great). After a few strokes feel free to do her "back door" doggie.
2007-03-19 19:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by space_occupied 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just let her know about once a month that it's still a hot idea to you. It's not so great that it's worth causing problems over.
2007-03-19 19:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her you really wanna try it, if she agrees you wanna go very very VERY slowly with plenty of lubrication and lots of patience. Take your time ! If you do it right she'll love it and let you do it more often, if not, your the one with the sore ****. Trust me, i only failed once. after that i learnt my lesson
2007-03-19 20:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by j_clarke2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What till night fall, take her round to the back of the house and make love to her.You can then tell all you mates, you did her in the back door!
2007-03-19 19:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
if she doesnt want to dont force her or keep tryin and tryin to convience her cuz thats a good way for her to break up with you, ya knw
2007-03-19 19:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by AMARI J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about finding you a gay man and you try it...beecause I don't care what a man says to me nothing goes up there it only exits
2007-03-19 19:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Superfly21 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋