i don't have a clue what to do and i need help.
i've been in love with my best guy mate for quite some time. but we are best mates and he always tell me about girls he's with or likes. the other day he told me about this girl and i totally cracked and called him tons of names including 'manwh0re, @rsehole,' and i told him i didnt want him in my life anymore.
but i do.
i phoned him there and he was really mad at me and even though i apologised he told me that i should delete his number. didnt know what to say. he told me he didnt give a 'sh1t' about what i had to say and hung up.
i really want to phone him back, i want him back as friend at least, but he wont talk to me.
help.
what should i say to make him talk to me again?? what do i do??
2007-03-19 12:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you called him a lot of bad stuff and now you regret it. So you were equals but now you will have to crawl back if he liked you he would have done something about it already. You are no longer friends imagine if a friend had called you those names would you be interested in them after that. You stabbed him in the back he said so long. Get over it.
Either that or sleep with him call him and offer it on a plate get it out of your system and move on
2007-03-19 12:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mack J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well! first of all maybe you should have told this guy how you felt instead of letting him think you are best buddies when all along you were looking for something more than friendship.
How on earth did you expect this guy to react when you call him all the names under the sun? You certainly crossed the fine line and have lost a good friend. Next time think before you speak!
2007-03-19 19:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by big mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait four days, then send a card with a gift, such as a cd, or a novel.
Don't offer an explanation.
Just write, "Sorry that I ofended you. I hope you will accept this by way of an apology, and that we can still be freinds".
2007-03-19 19:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, just give it a little while then ring him and if he was n e sort of m8 in the first place then he will forgive you even if it takes time. you proberbly just made him realise tt u like him and might ov made him feel guilty! but lads act in weird ways n e way hunny so dont worry it will get sorted out things just need time! i promise keep smilin:)
2007-03-19 19:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by nat l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i would leave a text msg cause he wont talk to u and or meet hiim in person face to face he cant hang up then......good luck
-jeremy-
=D
2007-03-19 19:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by jeremy_rd1260 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say you pretty much screwed up, you shouldn't call people such harshe names
2007-03-19 19:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by boswell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him why you did what you did because you did that cause you love him
2007-03-19 19:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine/Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a buddy to talk to him...
2007-03-19 19:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by munchkins233 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋