how do you let go of of someone u reallly have feelings for and get a piece of mind. how do u do it , when u know that both of u have a chance its just the timing that's not right. So maybe i guess my question is should u jus hang around and wait or jus let go.
2007-03-19 12:09:40 · 18 answers · asked by Bluey07 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, and you knew that there was somethign there, that the other person felt the same way; I would wait around for a little while. You need to be sure that the other person wants you too, otherwise you are only hurting yourself more by waiting and giving yourself that hope. If you end up needing to let go, all you can do is give yourself space, adn allow yourself to feel the pain- mabe cry over it. If you do not feel the pain or mourn for the loss then you will never recover. Good Luck
2007-03-19 12:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-boyfriend and I are going through the same thing right now. We both really like each other but the timing is off. We've decided to take a break from each other and even see other people until we both get back from study abroad next winter. Because we want to remain in each other's lives, we will stay in contact during this time. I don't know if this approach will work for your relationship, but it is an idea. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-19 19:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Swedish Meatball 87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just in the question you ask i can tell you are not very happy at the moment. The best thing to do is tell your Partner that you have these feelings and maby you need some time to think things out. But dont wait to long if you really love this person or you could lose them forever.
2007-03-19 19:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do, is go on with your life day by day. The pain will dull as time goes on, and you can accomplish things you need to get done for your future . IF the day comes that the time is right and it's meant to be, you will find your way back together. If not, then along the way you will find the person who is meant for you. Good luck
2007-03-19 19:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through almost the same thing, I am moving on because u never know if the "one" will pass u by. I am in love with my ex and I have made myself move on, cause Who knows if she is the one for me or not, Keep ur options open, So u dont miss out on anything, U cant wait forever! Be Happy, I hope u find Love
2007-03-19 19:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by spidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, just let go. If it is meant to be, it will be. I have been there. "This too shall pass". The best way to let go is give yourself lots of space. No seeing, calling, texting, IMing, any contact. Surround yourself with friends and family and get out a lot. Go to the movies etc. Keep your mind off of that person.
Best of luck!!! :)
2007-03-19 19:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by andybugg2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is different for everyone. Don't stop living your life because you have strong feelings for someone still. Go out with friends, go on vacation with family, go out and have fun. Time really does wonders when you keep living.
2007-03-19 19:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, I am in the same boat....keep busy and try not to dwell on it..its ok to cry when you feel like it because it will only make you feel better. I know its cliche' but it will happen if its supposed to. No point in wasting time when you dont know what will happen....hang in there
2007-03-19 19:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for this person so much you have to tell him, or her!!! you have to express your true feelings!! so, she or he, can decide what to do...maybe that person don´t have any clue what your feelings are, so you have to do it! take the chance! not knowing if you have a chance with her or him is what is really killing you!!I
2007-03-19 19:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just be friends and let life take its course, if it's meant to be it'll be , don't let go and accept other relationships, the time for u two will show itself
2007-03-19 19:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Pr!nc355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋