I LOVE SEX, but... he recently moved home to save money until August when we move in together, and when I am with him at their house he ALWAYS wants sex. He asks me to wear dresses so I can be ontop and it wouldnt be obvious if someone walked in, but I feel awkward taking so many risks about his parents seeing us!
2007-03-19 12:09:07 · 13 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live like 2 hours away and have a roommate in the bedroom.
2007-03-19 13:30:53 · update #1
Dangerous!
Have you heard the phrase "get a room"?
Don't do things which will be read as disrespect by others, especially his parents.
August is but a short while off, so show some restraint - you can go at it like rabbits after you've moved in together!
2007-03-19 12:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. It almost sounds like he's using your as his personal blow-up doll to get off with, whenever he feels the urge. It's a shame he has so little respect for you or for the real meaning of intimacy. Maybe you should wait for marriage to have sex or live together- that would solve a lot of problems.
2007-03-19 12:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a controling guy. Telling you what to wear and wanting to have sex in front of his family hoping they will not suspect anything. He's a freak. If you two ever got married you mignt have issues with him. How old are you? I don't see this going well at all.
2007-03-19 12:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by cy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why doesnt he just come to your house unless you live with your parents too. But if you are feeling awkward then just don't do it until you get your own place unless you feel comfortable with parents in the house but thats your call you can just say no and it doesn't happen
2007-03-19 12:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just enjoy the thrill of almost getting caught while having sex, its probably a big turn of for him. Try and talk to him about it.
2007-03-19 12:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex because he is a man, that's the only reason. Men want sex no matter where they are or who may see. I think it would be a bigger red flag if he DIDN'T want sex all the time.
2007-03-20 07:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey for some guys the chance of getting caught around the house is sexy...i think its lame...get a room
2007-03-19 12:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u tell him about this...easier solution sex after marriage then u won't have 2 worry about parents walking in and u can have sex all u want
2007-03-19 12:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Depressed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can shut the door and lock it
or goto a hotel or something, in the car
the risk makes it better
2007-03-19 12:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hotel room and go buck wild!
2007-03-19 12:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋