how do i stop thinking and liking this one the gut the i see almost every day...................he lives in my neiborhood and goes to my school
2007-03-19 12:02:50 · 4 answers · asked by ♥BABY GIRL♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real question here is Do you need help?
Perhaps, but perhaps not. The situation you describe is usually called a Crush. People involved in a Crush as usually in emotional turmoil, but this is normal. Confusing, but normal.
Why do you believe that you need to stop thinking and liking this guy? Is it because your world is so messed up when he is around? What you are experiencing is attraction and this is part of becoming a normal adult. Nothing in childhood prepared you for this.
On the down side is that most Crushes end with someone getting hurt. On the up side is that nobody ever died from a Crush and they do tend to fade with time.
2007-03-20 04:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Richard is correct. Someone does get hurt when your wandering around thinking so much about this other person that you wander right into a tree. However, if you really want to get your mind off of this other person, take up a hobby. Do anything that'll keep you occupied, volunteer some time toward something other than yourself. The crush will end eventually.
2007-03-22 08:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by No name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. If he likes you back then you can date each other. If he doesn't, well, that could make getting over him a lot easier.
There's no point in pining for someone while all along they might feel the same way. Ask, find out, and make your move from there. Good luck!
2007-03-22 05:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♫Silvi♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply take him out for a date.. no more confusing.. ask him for to give a chance to hav u
2007-03-22 12:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by creativemh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋