ok i was with this guy for about 3 months and we were so inlove. i loved him with all my heart and he told me he loved me to. but he wud always lie to me and we never talked. he was a shy person too. but the last week of our relationship i started hanging out with his best friend. and he wud tell me how much he cared about me and how much he loved me and wanted to be with me. he wud treat all his girlfriends good and everything. so teh day b4 me and my boyfriend at the time broke up, me and his best friend were all over each other and we were acting like we were goin out. so then i broke up with my b/f and im now goin out with his best friend. i still love my ex to death and i still want us to be friends but lately ive been feelin like i f-ed up big time....was wat i did wrong???
2007-03-19 11:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by ~kAyLa-BaBy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first of all I really dont think you loved him, you were in LUST with him, especially because your "new man" is your new LOVE. Anyhow, tragically yes, what you did was wrong, if you dont want to be with some one, dont date their friend and then break up witht them, BIG difference.
2007-03-19 12:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by woofywaffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... yes and no. I say that because if you and the best friend were hanging and acting like you were together B4 you broke up with your then boyfriend, that is wrong. But I say no you are not wrong because sometimes you can't help how you feel about someone. What you should have done was kept away from the best friend, broke up with the boyfriend, gave it some time. Then see if the best friend was someone you really wanted to be with... or if he was just someone who was different than your boyfriend. I feel for you. If you and your boyfriend end up friends, that is cool. But from reading your question, if you think about getting back with him, that is a bad idea. Good luck.
2007-03-19 19:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon for girls to do this type of thing. You probably started for the attention... i guess that really doesn't matter. The truth is his friend is the one who should have known better because girls come and go but a friend should be there forever.
2007-03-19 19:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Casey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was wrong. But you don't LOVE someone in 3 months!It sounds like you dont have much self esteem or confidence in yourself. you need to respect yourself, and keep the boys at arms length for awhile.
2007-03-19 19:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the ultimate slap to the guys ego dump him for his best friend you really screwed up on that one
2007-03-19 19:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by wiz and skinz fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it wasnt completely right. actually i dont think it was right at all, cause it happened to you u wouldve been pissed right??? jus remember KARMA comes right back around. im not sayin u should break up with the guy ur with now but, its jus pretty wrong what u did.
2007-03-19 19:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by AMARI J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um YES!!! you cheated on you boyfriend. whos to say you wont do it again?? you never should have messed around with his friend, but im sure if you apologize a million times he'll forgive you...maybe
2007-03-19 18:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Soccergrl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-19 18:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you're Ex was lying,so he deserved it.
2007-03-20 08:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋