I havent talked 2 him yet. She found my number n his phone & called. She claims they have been 2gether 4 10yrs, he has 10 kids (i only know of 2). Some of the things i know she lied about but some may be true. He has always treated me with respect. He seems 2 love me. I love him. No other man has treated me like he has. Should i hear his side of the story before calling it quits or should i just let it go.
2007-03-19 11:53:34 · 13 answers · asked by Spoiled Rotten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be willing to hear his side of the story but I would want him to back his story up with truth! I would want to know about all of his kids who this chick is and how she got your number and why she called you, are you just another woman to him or is she another woman to him find out the details all of them. Then go from there, just be smart and use your head.
2007-03-19 12:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would let it go and see his reaction if he comes after you listen to what he has to say and make you decision based on comparing and contrasting what was said...I've helped many a friend on cheating lovers but i don't want this to end up being like my best friend who was cheated on 26 times and she only knew of 2 until they broke up and then the truth came out.....what I'm getting at is it might turn out that you two aren't the only ones he's cheating on...
2007-03-19 12:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by thegeneral719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound good. You're going to have to look at this as a lesson learned. Leave him quickly and make sure that you can't be found. He may have lied a whole lot more than you realize. Don't worry about getting revenge; it'll happen on its own. You deserve someone who cares. God bless.
2007-03-19 12:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dogs do not smile at you shyly with twinkling eyes. dogs do not grant you with comfortable hugs and heat caresses. dogs do not chortle and snuggle. dogs do not tease you with a swing of her hips and a comfortable contact. dogs do not allow you to know you're the biggest individual in the international to them. dogs do not burrow below the blankets on a cold moist morning and basically communicate about existence. dogs do not start up the hearth, get a bottle of wine, and a sturdy action picture and announce they're taking the day without work and need to spend it with you. dogs do not love you the way a woman can. i'm basically sayin.
2016-12-02 06:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by barnhart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah... First of all if he has another woman he is probably lying about many other things. Do you know his friends? His kids? Family? That should clue you in on his personality, if he fails to bring you around to his place that should be a clue too. I would say something to him about it. If he lies about something else I would leave, no one deserves to be cheated on.
2007-03-19 11:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Julz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear his side. 10 kids in 4-10 years sounds kinda fishy. Talk to him.
2007-03-19 11:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him go. That woman sounds like she is joking or pulling a prank. Don't give up on him just like that (it shows how much you trust him).
2007-03-19 11:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, just let it go... unless you like being a doormat. Why would you even what a guy who has fooled you, who has presented himself to you as something other than what he truly is???? He's a betrayer.....
2007-03-19 12:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear him out, but make him prove he's telling the truth.
2007-03-19 11:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have issues. 17 months long distance? one of you hasn't moved? you are going nowhere with this dude. tell shawn kemp that he needs to move on and take care of his ten kids and to leave you alone.
2007-03-19 11:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Richard Head 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋